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compliment but backhanded?
wt is that one compliment that u get , which might seem harmless but u just dont like it. the compliment is wt they think it is, but for u its just some idk a sarcastic remark. for me it is people saying that I look so young for my age. smthg abt it dosent right with me. I'm fed up of ts , hearing this 'compliment' almost for my whole life now. it even sometimes feels like being infantalised? or babied too much. its fine if its from my family, i love being coddled. but when its from my peers it just feels like they sometimes underestimate me? ik people suffer from worse. have insecurities and stuff, but I think being overly 'complimented' or given backhanded compliments is enough to make a person develop trust issues in my case at least. idk the rest.
“You’re so pretty I can’t believe you’re (insert whatever race/nationality/ethnicity you are).” Especially when it’s then old ass white people bruh. 1 reply
-"You probably give the best hugs" just say they're fat atp
-"Better than Ai" just say I'm untalented and I should quit art atp.
-"I don't see you in relationship "???
-" I thought you were mean when we first met"
-Wait you're actually funny " always coming from a dude
-" I could never wear makeup like u " 2 reply
this reminded me of ppl commenting "the greeks wouldve gone to war for you" on tiktok. there is a myriad of other comments in similar vein that r just not comments you would see on a conventionally attractive girls post. reply
My coworker found out i live next door to her relative , its a newly established neighbourhood and we just moved , she ask me abt the area and how much the cost for building our house is . I told her , then she goes "ah thats a good deal , it might be kinda small house but atleast its nice and comfy :) " and i just stood there processing how she ca...... reply
"I wish I could be as independent as you so I don't have to deal with this mess" - a girl admiring my (involuntary) singleness while bemoaning how she has to balance her long distance long term bf with the new hottie she landed, bedded, and drove to tears the day before. reply
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i really hated it when people used to say this to me in highschool, that’s just mean, like no one even wanted to know ur opinion bitch reply
"I like your eyes, they always look tired" and "you look really pretty when you smile" are literally the only two compliments I ever receive, but they don't sound like compliments to me ngl. 1 reply
Someone telling me they like my hair straight or saying anything in regards to straightening my hair. On the few occasions I straighten my hair the compliments I get is too much and it feels racially motivated, compliment me on literally anything else. When I tell people I don't really like straightening my hair cause it takes so much time for such...... reply
