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GUILTY FOR UNRECIPROCATING
Has anyone else felt like, super guilty about not reciprocating someone's feelings? This guy has liked me for a few yrs now, he's currently my friend but I don't reciprocate his feelings at all. I've been careful when interacting with him and I also rejected him 2x already and recently I saw him put smt in his discord bio about wanting love and I feel so guilty.
I suppose I don't feel guilt about not feeling the same way because I know you can't force feelings but I feel guilt about the outcome. I wish he can find somebody who loves him soon. It'll help if you guys could share your stories even if it's only remotely connected to my situation.
My own experience rejecting guys: I felt both flattered and quite guilty as you said, because I could see how much expectations they had going on in their mind. Now, these aren't things to dwell on. The person being rejected has to mourn their expectation and go forward. It's the only reasonable outcome. You rejecting them isn't a bad thing nor a p...... reply