I never thought very seriously about it. I had doubts as a teenager, i used to feel a little bit of a frisson whenever my dear friend waxed my underarms for me. Heh. But I just swept it under the rug. When I was in college, during my first year, on a beautiful rainy day in the hostel when all the girls were playing slip and slide in the garden, I s...... 2 reply
In sixth grade, I thought I was jealous of this one girl "stealing" my friends, but after journaling about it I realized I was actually kind of obsessed with her, and was more so jealous that she wasn't giving me the attention she was giving to my friends.
Then I kinda paused for a second, and was like, "holy shit... this feeling is having a crush ...... reply
One day in my early 20s I just realized how little I care about having sex. Like, I'd watch sex and jerk off to people having sex, obsess over BL and GL pairings etc, but I just did not care to do it myself. 0 fantasies about me with others. Instead I cared about being with friends and family, maybe living with someone I like long-term.
That's whe...... reply
Was pansexual since age 12, 2y ago i went to a hang out with some people from the local bdsm queer community and one of them was aroace even tho they actively engaged in sex and not only nonsexual kinks. It clicked after talking to them that I was aroace too
Tbf if you arent directly interacting with the community you usually just go by the most c...... reply
well back then, most of my female classmates were lesbian and I was really confident of being a straight person BUT i met this girl on 9th grade who actually awakened something on me like putting pieces on puzzle (i was just in denial) and yeah that happened, im a fucking bi (pansexual) reply
I realized I was bisexual when one time at my running club I fell over a random guy (which I found pretty attractive too at this time ) and so we fell together and we ended up kissing very near the lips (not on purpose) and he was straight so he rejected me and started feeling nauseous whereas me who didn’t knew I was bi found this kiss pretty ni...... 1 reply
I was told that I would get married someday and have children, then I realized need to have sex for that and I don’t really want to get married. No thanks, I rather have a harem with ukes tho reply
for truth or dare a friend once asked me what id do if a girl asked me out and i was like shiiii maybe i dont mind i can imagine myself like that (i usually tell ppl im bi but lowk idt gender matters for me)
oh also i had a wet dream involving a random faceless girl reply
