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How do y'all deal with parents checking ur phone?
My dad saw meaking a passkey for my iCloud and for some reason he got so suspicious he took my phone and asked me to open it? I said I won't cuz it's my privacy, then I got lectured so bad and it was on my most important exams in life so it ruined my mood so bad as if I'm not already dealing with pressure and stress from them. 2 days after I get my phone but my mom checks my messages cuz they're 100% I'm talking to boys, anyway she checks find nothing.. She probably doesn't believe it cuz every time I'm on my phone she asks who I'm talking to, what I'm watching and it's soo annoying and draining tho I'm still in my exams week. I finished exams 2 days ago and thought i can relax finally but today I wake up to my mom asking me to open my phone cuz she wanna check it with my dad?? I say no so she say no phone then.?? So I deleted every yaoi thing I had on my phone while shes not looking including my chrome and my massage, then my dad comes home and tells me I need to connect my mom to every account I have in all apps and they want access to all my emails..? How do I genuinely escape this shit, mind you they never ask my brother this cuz he's soooo trusty. Even if they dont find yaoi they won't like anything I talk about with my online friends.. Do y'all have tips or smth to help?
Parents are doing that…? That’s an invasion of privacy. Idk how old you are, but you might need to hide your apps and up the security on it before you can eventually move out and go low contact. They sound controlling. reply
unless you're on the older side I fear you should just let them go through your phone, as someone who's parent never monitored anything it will almost always end up going badly. reply
honestly w how easy it is for some creep to grab a pic of u and turn it into csam through ai i understand why they'd want to check ur messages bc you'd never admit u are chatting to strangers online. u don't even have to be a child for someone to manipulate u online but it is easier. i do also believe children should have a right to privacy esp if ...... reply
Haha.. mine still do that and mind you I have been working for 2 years already.
And it's not like they genuinely feel I have a bf... They are cool with my male friends and colleagues...
But I don't know they are always like you will always be a kid to us.. never hide things from us .. we only care for you..
I have just given up.. but their moni...... reply
I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this, once you have the chance to move out of their home and are financially independent from their I HIGHLY encourage you go low contact with them because they sound like they will ALWAYS feel like they are entitled to know everything that is going on in your private life without any regard for your wishes or r...... reply
Your phone should allow you to remove apps from your homescreen. If they don’t know you have certain apps and stuff they shouldn’t be able to find them.
For your yaoi, instead of leaving the tabs open whenever you’re done reading close the tab and write your chapter number down in either a Google doc or your notes app. If they ask what the c...... 2 reply
