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TMI can y'all help me?
im sorry if it's TMi can any girl tell me how to jerk off im genuinely so scared of doing it but im so frustrated UGH T_T like im scared to put fingers inside my vajayjay also i tried doing it but it doesn't feel good it feels wierd and scary and idk how to do it either. (im sorry if it is too TMI idk who else to ask?) for reference im 22. i was reading this one yaoi(it was "dawning light" for ref T_T im a certified gooner now i got so turned on like my pants are wet for some reason idk why i am wet most times like not sexually just the discharge is more(?) there's no problem it's been like that since like, FOREVER. there are no down there problems or anything. fuck i hate when my pussy wet for no reason now what to do T_T it looks like i pissed myself. also yes im gonna delete this once i get any helpful answers this is not a troll post please help a girl out i beg, im sorryy T_T god im gonna be called a gooner fujo from now im so embarrassed. why is being turned on so embarrassing im not even sexually attracted to no one irl or even in fiction (maybe oh inseop from for your murder lord psychopaths do it for me so good) thanks in advance
girl its ok to get turned on and stuff (even if ur asexual. Its normal to have some libido. Its ok if u dont either but clearly u do). And its nothing to be afraid of. You dont have to put your fingers inside to masturbate. You can use your clit to get off. I'm just gonna assume you have nothing at your disposal except your right (or left idk) hand...... 1 reply
How to masturbate.
Tips:
-not knowing how to masturbait is completely normal. Society makes sure vagina's pleasure is at best a second thought, at worst a sin.
-there are many ways to masturbate. Penetration isnt for everyone. And vaginal penetrative isnt for everyone. Maybe try anal.
masturbation isnt for everyone and that is normal
-normally I ...... 1 reply
I agree with jay. listen really NO JUDGEMENT but this is for sure something that google can answer I promise!!! There's lots of articles (and yes... videos on certain sites) that give tips and explain this kinda thing. They def work, I would know LMAOO. Like just to be clear btw do not use yaoi as m-bate ref I love it but they're not always uh ...a...... 2 reply
Fingering is not for everyone esp when u just started out and i agree with the other commenter. You should go on reddit. Check out r/sex. There will be more posts in general but there are also women specific reddit communities. Overall, they will be way more helpful to you than here. But for now, most women are more into clitoral stimulation than v...... reply
tbh I think just the motions of rubbing your vagina and stimulating the clitoris is good enough. start slow and then adapt at your own pace. it's easy and not that scary and gets you off pretty well. if fingering is too scary, then maybe it's not for you. a lot of women prefer just massaging the clitoris because fingering can be very uncomfortable ...... reply
you dont have to insert ur fingers, you can like rub ur clit bc its the area that has the most sensory nerves, so you can get ur stimulation from there
(this has me dying genuinely typing this out, but i hope it gave some help) reply
ok guys thank y'all for replying i am leaving this ques here for a while in case any other girl like me was curious. im gonna delete it soon. thanks for anyone who commented. i didn't try it out bc i was too scared maybe it's also guilt and idk(?) societal conditioning that doing this is bad. so i js freeze the moment i try to take things further. ...... 2 reply
not even doing a "i'm a visual learner btw" joke but if you feel comfortable, you can also watch/see masturbation vids/gifs/whatever and get a general sense. it'll definitely take a few attempts to find what feels good as everyone is different, there's also syntribation which just involves squeezing your legs/thighs together (you could use a pillow...... 1 reply
