Always think back to why you broke up in the first place, don't plant seeds about them in your life to the point where you can only think about them but remember why you didn't work out back then. They don't want you so it's easy to think they'll never care for you as much as you care for them, regardless if you get back together. You're only wanti...... reply
understanding it’s a waste of time to be bothered by things out of your control
don’t let another person control the way you feel or live your life reply
it takes time.
i was so obsessed over this guy, all of my friends didn’t like him. they all told me over and over to get over him but i still liked him.. so no matter what they said, you would follow your heart and always go back to him.
but one day something snapped. not because i finally listened to my friends.. it was because i realized the...... reply
If they were bad ex or cheating, throw a brick at them. If not, allow it that the feelings and thoughts about them can take some time.. i mean i had a best friend and getting over them took like 2 years.. so imagine with a partner. It’s a normal healing process so i don’t think you should “rush it” even though it’s hurts. (Also the more y...... reply
Feelings need the time to be acknowledged, tended to--to let go and release. It's not a very linear process. Be present for the feelings that come up; it's okay to still have feelings. If you have a way to cope and vent it helps, like writing. In the meantime, minimize the space they take up in your life. Don't check their socials, photos, messages...... reply
If you can't stop crying over them, film yourself crying. Witness how pitiful you look. The next time you think about texting them or how much you miss them, watch the video of you crying and ask yourself why you would want to be with someone who makes you look like that. reply
