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People giving negative amount of advice
Idk if it's just me but sometimes I gen feel like on this website whenever someone talks about feeling sad that they can't find a date or they aren't experiencing romance there is always like an array of people giving the most nothing replies.
Always things like "focus on loving yourself first" and "relationships arent that special anyway" and "love will find you when you're not looking for it".
It's the most live laugh love type response ever, do you genuinely think the op hasn't heard all of that before?
And honestly that whole mentality isnt even like real. Like, I was in more relationships and getting hit on more when i was actively suicidal than after i stopped hating myself. Love in fact did not find me when i stopped searching. Genuinely if you have nothing real to say why say anything
and did those relationships help u w ur suicidal ideation or? the amount of women who get into a relationship bc they hate themselves then let their boyfriends treat them like complete shit is exactly why that corny ass advice is given bfr 1 reply
Yeah this is what misery looks like.
What the heck exactly do you expect strangers online to do? Hand you a list of potential partners? Pragmatically speaking there isn't much advice to give beyond the things you're complaining about. Just because someone says "focus on yourself" or tries to be encouraging doesn't mean they're dismissing your feel...... reply
Yeah but also wtf else are people supposed to say . Noo don't feel bad you'll find someone but not if you're ugly and have a shit personality! People can say much else to people they don't know 2 reply
But what do you expect them to say? “Yeah, you’re right, you’ll be alone forever and die alone”? There are always people who give stupid replies to posts like this. Personally, I don’t mind replies from others who are trying to offer "encouraging words", even though at that moment it might make me feel better to read from people going thr...... reply
im sorry but we are taking forums way too seriously. you're expecting ppl pirating manga to suddenly become therapists or some shit like that nobody here is obligated to give life changing advice. Most users would rather try to make someone feel a little better with generic encouragement than give advice that could make them overthink even more or ...... reply
I get it, but its better than letting them drown in self misery. If every reply on my vents was saying shit like 'yeah it never gets better you hopeless fuck' then I would've jumped off a cliff along time ago loll reply
but it's true though? and i think their intention is genuinely good whenever they comment that. but just bcs it's true doesn't mean it's applicable to everyone. but heyy no harm done with that reply
then what are they supposed to say to a stranger? yeah, you're an ugly bitch, that's why you don't have a boyfriend? i don't get why people are so obsessed with random people's opinions online or act like their advice is going to fix anything reply
