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Opinions on cnc
I’ve been wondering this for a while and talked to a few people about it but I still don’t have a solid opinion on cnc, so please tell me what you think about it. Ik it’s a very controversial kink and I’ve seen people say that it’s fine since it’s just more of an extreme subcategory or whatever of S&M/BDSM and others just finding it gross.
I dont personally like the idea of feeding into ur intrusive thoughts because thoughts of rape and stuff are all hyper-sexuality and i believe that the person should get that checked but hey both parties are consenting so whats my issue reply
me personally I just mind my business because I don’t have a say in what two consenting adults do in their bedroom, but also some people use it as a coping mechanism sometimes due to past trauma so I can’t really judge. We all have different reasons for what we do and don’t do sooo reply
I definitely get the appeal of CNC, being both submissive and a masochist. It's essentially just rape in a controlled setting where, in a healthy bdsm relationship, the 'victim' is in full control of when and where the play ends. It also helps when you are disgusted by your own intrusive thoughts. reply
we dont have anything to say about what two (or more) grown ass adults do in their bedroom as long as it doesnt involve us personaly and that they respect each other and that it's consensual. cnc is CONSENSUAL so it's not a problem it's just a kink like an other reply
It's important to highlight CONSENT in cnc. Consent which can be taken or given and the play STOPS depending on it. Cnc is still 1000000% better than SA/rape regardless of what anyone feels about it. People being kinky is not the same as literal violence against another person. reply
I dont really understand the name of the kink, its an oxymoron why is it consensual non consensual when these 2 things arent interchangable?? it always pisses me off , and honestly I think the topic is kinda nuanced and I am honestly puzzle why some victims say they do it to heal from their trauma and get their autonomy back and so they feel safe w...... 1 reply
Honestly to me this one is something that only works with partners that absolutely trust each other.
The sub needs to be absolutely comfortable with their partner and trust them fully to know that its absolutely just a kinky play and that they would stop anytime someone feels uncomfortable. To the sub it's liberating to give up control to someone ...... reply
