my hate letter to the "redemption arc" trend

"redemption arc this" "redemption arc that" FUCK REDEMPTION ARC WHY CANT HE BE A NORMAL HUMAN BEING SINCE THE BEGINNING
and even when the ml IS sometimes normal what we call "redemption arc" is just having basic human decency ??? "omg he didnt raped him he learned consent !!!!" AAAAAAAAAAHGHYFHF WHO IS MY NEXT SACRIFICE TO CALM MY RAGE FOR THE NORMALISATION OF NONCON IN MEDIAS
like let's be fr, being a normal person is NOT redemption, and im tired of seeing toxic and abusive behaviors being excused bc "redemption"
FUCK FUCKING REDEMPTION ARC