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How to make deep friendship?
I'hv been struggling a lot socially for years as much as I can remember. Uhh..... I don't think ....people see me as any weird type?? ( Unless they know my reading list here..:,,) and I got the idea in the very early on that unfortunately apperance indeed is the Key to bigger and better things, and I would rate myself solid...6.5/10. Like.... I don't really have a cute ahh girly face, it's like RBF but in a bold way...and people have told me that I do....look intimidating in the first look. And I also can extend upto small talks , but not a longer or meaningful one....idk where I'm going wrong y'all.
Girl, imma be fr with you, i know this is a yappathon but ur looks probably DO affect first impressions especially if people already told you that you look intimidating but i dont think thats the whole reason. having a cute girly face isnt gonna magically make people wanna be deep friends with you (unless they got other motives other than friendshi...... reply
dont ask on this website we are all chronically online outcasted who hate the real world we dont try to make deep friendships but i still have a tip because i have friends even if im here : dump your interests and see if someone has these interests too, and then you start by talking about ig and after talking about something else and after well yo...... reply
girl if you learn how to make tell me too bc i dont know how to make friends to. i have few close friends that i made when i was younger but now im trying to make new friends and every attempts are failed idk but theres not connection i try to make conversation but they dont answer or we just say hi how r u and thats it like i even find smo who has...... 3 reply
I agree that it develops naturally....but also not really. I hate to sound clinical about it but developing deep friendships depends on your emotional plus social capacity and availability. People make friends / deep friendships easily in their childhood or teenage years because of school or university -- gives you that availability and capacity. Y...... reply
From my experience, you and your friends don't necessarily have to share interests, you just need to find people who dislike what you dislike as well. reply
Well small talk is where it starts. Focus on topics that might create a connection. Be honest about your intrests, even if they seem odd to you (you can skip some details) and when you enjoy chatting with someone and the feeling seems mutual, don't hesitate to make the first move towards a friendship like asking for their socials or inviting them t...... reply
For me Bestie was scored thru interests. We horseback ride together and horses were our first topic upon meeting, then riding together to trailering off to state park horse trails....then we love swimming too so and we party'd up a bit etc.......it just clicks with someone. For me shared interests is what connects me and my best friends. So if y...... reply
