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Being aromantic is bad?
I'm struggling to falling in love with someone, I can't get a attraction romantically. I don't know why but I don't mind close with someone but it's hard to feel connected with them.
It's kinda torturing me, I also have tendency to be avoidant and hyper independent. But that's only on romantic relationship, my friendship is fine. I feel like romantic relationship is a chore, I need to take care of them, I need to talk to them everyday, I need to include them with with almost anything. It's just feels like something that I need to do, not something I like to do.
I want to love someone but my heart don't have any Sparks, I can only like someone but not enough to love them. And I often felt guilty because I can't love them as much as they love me
I be honest with you and this might sound negative at first but i also don’t want to sugarcoat it. I actually can relate to being hyper independent and avoidant cause i am like that too.. and i always been.
and to answer your question, the only bad thing is that it gonna destroy you emotionally. You feel like you don’t need anyone, you can
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