at what point does attraction became fetishizstion

I really like monolid eyes and on avg I think my crush have that type of eyes and most of them are of Chinese descent.
any character that have that type of eyes attracted me. I read Disorder and Desire bc of the glasses guy on the cover. my favorite character rn is Geto. ever since I laid eyes on that man I'm gone
people who express similar attraction is usually called Asian fetishizer but idk if I myself is on that level yet, cuz 1. I'm another flavor of asian 2. i like this feature on every race, not limited to asian. 3. idk what my third point is I just don't want to be an (east) Asian fetishizer. my ancestors will be disappointed in me