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hi yall its 4am where im from and im quite literally having a identity crisis rn. ive been questioning myself about my style and where i actually fit in, ik it sounds funny or weird to some but idk it’s a huge problem for me since it gets to a point where id rather stay in than go out with my friends cuz i dont really know what style i should go for and usually just end up staring at my clothes thinking “i dont want to wear any of this”. Ive been rocking quite literally the typical baddie/copy paste latina style since its what i think fits me but i cant help but be interested in jirai kei, esp their makeup. Im ngl im more interested in the jirai stuff rather than what im used to, but i feel like it’ll be too difficult for me to change now and im also scared of getting judged by others. Should I just stick to what I’m used to? （/TДT)/
Baby steps twin. You don’t want to completely change overnight because that will confuse you and the people around you. Start off small, do something different with your makeup, or even start by getting a haircut to build a baseline. If anyone questions your decision, or asks about your change in style , just reply with a small “cute, isn’t i...... reply
Honestly I feel like this is the typical identity crisis when someone releases that they are dressing in trends and styles and not what they actually like. Look at yourself. What’s is your hair color. Eye color. Skin color. All these should play a role into what actually suits you. Over the years you will find different trends and styles that you...... reply
Have you tried dressing up and look at yourself at the mirror? Or you can ask someone you trust for their opinion. Don’t rely too much on others though, since it should be from your choice. But if you haven’t tried that yet maybe you should do it and see if it helps. reply
