"its fine if its fiction"

its almost like every time i see a bl (its always bl) that has rape in it, a regular person would say smth like "why is there rape," "seme is a horrible person," someone will always reply and say "its just fiction." i need these people to realize the author thought this out, fantasized rape in their head, and decided that their character deserves to go through something like that. personally, i cant even make myself imagine someone getting raped let alone reading it and defending it. its just that horrible. i dont understand how people can genuinely look at a piece of fiction that contains the uke being kidnapped, confined, raped, abused, and think, "its fine because its not real." a VERY REAL person made it.