whatevermans's answer page 18 (358)

and that's ok   reply

If this is true, your main problem is that your self-esteem is in the trenches. Even if you find someone else, the same pattern will start again. There are many ways to improve your self-esteem. You can start by contemplating on this - your worth isn't dependent on your body, it's innate, you are worthy no matter how you look, how you act, what you......   reply

"Nothing is personal, people don't really care about anyone but themselves" which I found very liberating actually..   1 reply

it just latches on various topics, hatred doesn't really care about specifics. it's never about the object of hate, always about the one who feels hate. the question ppl should ask is not "why these people that I hate are like that" but "why am I feeling hate" and then they may realize there was no one they ever hated but themselves ╮(￣▽￣......   1 reply

new moral standards made ppl ashamed of their ships so it's pointless to ask everyone is gonna lie   reply

Initially it was completely wiped out for everyone.. and then only like 1/3 of what I had got restored, and the rest I guess is done for, because it's been a hot minute already and nothing is changing   1 reply

usually I'm not feeling it AT ALL, and don't want to see what doesn't work for me, BUT I second this one "I’d kill a neighbor if Jake let Shin fuck him"   reply

it's better to be an immigrant in Europe though? as a European, America seemed really unattractive to me in the past for a lot of reasons including fear of being randomly shot on the streets, and now it's even worse. but I love Americans as people and I don't think they are dumb. the only thing I don't understand about them is how they could kindly......   1 reply

what do you think about Sufism?   1 reply

they should, if they are masochists! yours bsf has some more roads to walk   reply

Find out what's behind it. Maybe sadness, maybe feeling powerless   reply

from my own experience, I realized that my life was shit and I wanted to off myself because deep down I believed that I didn't deserve to be alive. so I suggest you to start doing affirmations. for example, "I deserve to be alive" or "I'm worthy", just repeat it even if you don't believe it it's called robotic affirming, for example while doing dis......   reply

Never EVER think that there is something wrong with you. Or life will start generating more and more evidence supporting that belief. Start thinking that everything is right with you instead. "Hope college will fix me" THERE IS NOTHING TO FIX you are fine   reply

when you self exit you are gonna repeat the same shit in your next life just with slightly different props but it's gonna feel the exact same and it's gonna repeat until you finally decide that you are worthy of being alive and that you want to be alive. this is probably not your first lifetime with wanting to self exit, and maybe you even have alr......   reply