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Is that a thing? Being ashamed to not wear a bra at home? I am not living with my girlfriend, but whenever she visits her bra is off as soon as she knows she doesn't have to leave the house anymore. The thought "wow, that is disgusting" would not and did not cross my mind for a second and probably never will...   1 reply

Straight male, 26 and kind of suprised to be watched as a rare kind xD Even though you could have guessed that since the forum is basically 99,9% "how did yaoi change your life forever?"-threads and questions   2 reply

Straight dude here: Girls (or anyone else for that matter), get off to whatever you want. Want to read yaoi? Noice. Want to imagine two dudes in bed? Also noice. Just keep it for yourself. Really simple. Your thoughts are yours alone and as long as you are not hurting anybody with it, do the dance with no pants! To put it simple: Masturbating over ......   1 reply

weird flex but okay   reply

- Neon Genesis Evangelion (all 26 episodes) - Death and Rebirth (optional, mostly a summary of the series) - End of Evangelion (rewrites the last two episodes of the anime) - Rebuild of Evangelion 1.0, 2.0 and 3.0 (Remake of the series, but especially the first film feels a bit incomplete if you don't have the backround infos from the series)   1 reply

I actually believe there is something like that. It is not like the love you build over time, but more than simple attraction. It becomes sad though if only one of the two has that kind of flash~   reply

Your 15, when you have no "drama", you ain't doing it right :P To keep it simple: When you don't feel comfortable in a relationship, talk with your s.o. And if they aren't willing to atleast acknowledge your problems or even dismissing it...then you really should check if your "love" is worth the prize. And it feels like you already have an answer......   1 reply

Obviously it depends a lot on what kind of a person you are, but for me this sounds like you should give it a shot. And I know, you might think now "but what if it ruins our friendship?" By personal experience (sorry if that sounds scary now): It is already ruining. If he really likes you, there is not that much of a chance to go back to "normal", ......   1 reply

Depending on how long your story should be: Work out a "writing plan". What should happen? What are the major conflicts? Do your characters have to be some kind of way for your end to work? It is much easier to work along this "rope" than to come up with everything step by step. It is important though that this concept shouldn't restrict yourself.   1 reply

One of my (female) history teachers was extremly hot. Basically everyone was fawning about her. But since she was a fucking awful teacher in my most favorite subject, I hated her so much   reply

Bondage in general, gags in particular   reply

Not really "rejecting" in a "sorry, no"-way. More like accidently rejecting a few girls. Not that I would ever consider myself that much wanted xD   reply

My current girlfriend (she wasn't at that time) and I were lying on my bed, cuddling. I had feelings for her and kinda thought she felt the same, but how do you get this whole "boyfriend-girlfriend"-thing started? Well...my approach was this: I kissed her. Before that I had this whole speech in my mind, but after the kiss, my mind went completly bl......   reply

Generally speaking yes (26 and white), but I'm rather reluctant about giving away contact info xD   reply

Back in school: Warning my love-interest of that time to not go to a birthday-party of one of her classmates. Honestly just a feeling of jealousy and "foreshading", dunno. Well, long story short, the party went south really quickly and she spent the night   1 reply

Yeah, I did...not the smartes thing I have ever done...   reply

Just for the lolz I will throw myself in this and probably regret it immediatly. Yes, anime and manga is full of objectified women, even if you disregard those with an ecchi-tag (since there it is just part of the package). Maybe that is because of japanese culture, which is way more reserved than anime lets the rest of the world believe. Also eve......   1 reply

You should try "Broadchurch". Very cool and different approach to the whole "one crime per episode"-concept. Especially season 1 is probably the best crime show I have ever watched.   reply

I did and I'm certainly not proud of it.   reply

Best places could be "online gaming" and "friends of your (male) friends". When there is someone you like, find excuses to chat/talk with them privately. Maybe you even get lucky and one of them start flirting/talking with you first. I actually have a story/example for that, but since it is from a guys-perspective I'm not sure it would help you :D   1 reply