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28 02,2026
Please reccomend me some newly released BL titles that you've liked, maybe from 2025-2026 or a little earlier than that. I've been liking 'The Secret to Winning Unrequitted Love', and feel I just want to read some more BLs that are new or atleast fairly new. I'm not feeling up to reading any long standing BL titles rn. Thanks :)
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Like even when someone or another character has a valid reason to have a problem with the character/thing they relate most to, people find it necessary to pick apart that person or character for having a problem with the character/thing they relate to. Why do people feel the need to do this? I find it's pretty weird. :/
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18 07,2026
For me I hate Jinx from Arcane. It's made me hate the show as a whole, and want nothing to do with it and anything related to League of Legends, to Arcane etc.
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Y'know? because woman and man should be seen as equal and not different from each other or polar opposites. Do you guys agree that woman and man are not polar opposites or different to each other?
I think they should be viewed as synonymous of each other, on the same end of a spectrum, not on opposite ends. Because what even is the difference between man and woman outside of sex. Sex doesn't determine how a man or woman act, so why differentiate them, view them as different and categorize them as different when the one thing that makes them different, it itself doesn't dictate that men act a certain away that is different to women that would make a conceptual differentiation/separation between man and woman worth it. I say, screw the idea that man are different or the opposite of woman, /and/ screw the need to make/have men be different or the opposite of women! Society, Fuck you for ever establishing this and pushing for it!
What do you guys think? (sorry if this question is an obvious answer type question)
I think they should be viewed as synonymous of each other, on the same end of a spectrum, not on opposite ends. Because what even is the difference between man and woman outside of sex. Sex doesn't determine how a man or woman act, so why differentiate them, view them as different and categorize them as different when the one thing that makes them different, it itself doesn't dictate that men act a certain away that is different to women that would make a conceptual differentiation/separation between man and woman worth it. I say, screw the idea that man are different or the opposite of woman, /and/ screw the need to make/have men be different or the opposite of women! Society, Fuck you for ever establishing this and pushing for it!
What do you guys think? (sorry if this question is an obvious answer type question)
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I think there is a beauty in still hating characters even though they have valid/human reasons to be a fuck up/not totally reprehensible. I think it's lovely to still hate those characters and should be normalized, that idc how human they are I'm still going to hate them. Opinions? Anyone else ever feel like this?
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I'm scared of death but I also don't want to witness the end of the universe. Why does the universe even exist? Well it's okay, because I get to read my BLs ^^
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Platonic relationships are great and I think can be very deep and beautiful to have. Do you guy's have any platonic relationships you guys have seen and liked in BL?
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I read a reddit comment today that said this: "People love their existing belief systems and cultural narratives being presented as complex. Regardless of archetype" and there's a different context for it but I firmly agree with it and can't help but use it to rant about an annoyance I have related to people and complexity in fiction. That sometimes people hype up something that is complex, praising it for it's complexity, but those things would just feels like it already aligns with those people's pre existing belief systems, and I get annoyed because I would think complexity means it challenge you but I would sometimes see, people would hype up complex shit that in the end already aligns with what they believe, so they aren't being challenged by shit. I find that incredibly annoying. Like I don't care for this complexity your praising if it just aligns with what you believe in the grand scheme of things. I don't understand why people hype up complex things that in the end agrees with them and never actually challenged them on a belief they hold. Like stfu there's nothing great about that. This is a mess post but I can't find the words, and think of the sentences to say this more clearly.
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My biology classmates like to call eachother nonsense mutations. I find it so stupid.
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I just watched how to train your dragon live action and how to train your dragon is just such a good, lovely, awesome movie. Obviously if I had a dragon I want a night fury, I'm not original. If only dragons were real
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25 05,2026
How come whenever people talk about this author or their stories they mention "Form of Sympathy" and "Park il-woo and I", but they don't mention "For Your Love" made by the same author? Is "For Your Love" just not good enough for people to talk about, mention or read?! "For Your Love" is one of my fav BL out there! how come people just don't mention it when recommending or talking about the author and their works, why?!?! BL fandom why?!?
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I'm not looking for recs just want to be an inconvenience by complaining about something small but is a big deal to me, for some reason... :/ also not saying uke protagonist is bad. Does anybody else share my grievances? :((
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17 08,2026
And, if others, people who are not you, are faced with valid criticisms, do you think they should just take it even if the person given the critique is a hypocrite or flawed? Would you reinforce the criticism or critique the hypocritical critic?
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I just realized why the hell am I talking on the internet and why did I start doing that in the first place? And why did I do it when I did it? I wonder if it's related to age, where at a certain age you start wanting to put your opinion out there, oppose people or agree with people. What are your guy's thoughts on why you would want to post your opinions online?
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I don't believe in ghosts but my life is so boring right now, I wish there was a ghost haunting my house, keeping me on edge, and making me scared for my life. And to cope, I'd try to convert it into liking BL by reading BL in it's presence, whiles also trying to make it be into the music I like by blasting it in it's proximity. The ghost can experience a new world, maybe catch a vibe, maybe be reformed through me and the power of BL! (≧∀≦)
If not a ghost maybe a demon, I think BL could really change a demon's life. (I'm so thoughtful looking out for a demon)
If not a ghost maybe a demon, I think BL could really change a demon's life. (I'm so thoughtful looking out for a demon)
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20 07,2026
And they threaten to take legal action if they find their work is being pirated somewhere?
I had a fav BL where the author demanded the uploaders to remove the uploads from the piracy site I was reading the BL on, and since I liked the story and didn't want the author of my fav story feeling disrespected and upset over something they clearly expressed they don't like happening, I just accepted that I wouldn't be able to read it on that site anymore. I didn't want to hold any ill-feelings towards the author and them trying to protect their work. And if they purged it from all piracy sites I'd just accept I wouldn't be able to read one of my fav BL until I can finally have the ability to access it legally.
What would you guy's do if the author of your fav works didn't like their works being pirated, and took it down from the piracy sites you use and many more?
I had a fav BL where the author demanded the uploaders to remove the uploads from the piracy site I was reading the BL on, and since I liked the story and didn't want the author of my fav story feeling disrespected and upset over something they clearly expressed they don't like happening, I just accepted that I wouldn't be able to read it on that site anymore. I didn't want to hold any ill-feelings towards the author and them trying to protect their work. And if they purged it from all piracy sites I'd just accept I wouldn't be able to read one of my fav BL until I can finally have the ability to access it legally.
What would you guy's do if the author of your fav works didn't like their works being pirated, and took it down from the piracy sites you use and many more?
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Especially pick me's. And I'm specifically speaking men who bring down women for the approval of other men. Men who center male voices, male point of view whiles looking down on female voices and point of view. Honestly if you guys give me the go, I'm going to start weaponzing these terms against men. This is the type of gender equality we are talking about /j
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I hate men and their sexualizing of female breats. Why did they have to make our society like this? I wish breasts could just exist and rarely be seen as sexual. Yuck.
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10 07,2026
Are comment dislikes a big deal to you guys? Do you guys get upset just seeing at least one dislike on your comments?
I remember there was a time people would complain here about the other questions section, how it seemed like someone was just disliking every comment because people would see that most of the comments had at least one dislike, and my reaction to that was like what's the big deal? It's just one dislike as the comments would just get one dislike.
Also are dislikes really a big of a deal or should they mean anything?
Sometimes people use someone's dislike count to delegitimize that person, weaponizing their dislike count against them, poking fun at them, and I couldn't help but wonder why impose that dislikes mean shit? Especially to the point where someone is no longer valid, and making fun of them for it. For me I see this as cliquey, bully behavior. Why do people seem so proud in implementing that?
What do you guys think?
I remember there was a time people would complain here about the other questions section, how it seemed like someone was just disliking every comment because people would see that most of the comments had at least one dislike, and my reaction to that was like what's the big deal? It's just one dislike as the comments would just get one dislike.
Also are dislikes really a big of a deal or should they mean anything?
Sometimes people use someone's dislike count to delegitimize that person, weaponizing their dislike count against them, poking fun at them, and I couldn't help but wonder why impose that dislikes mean shit? Especially to the point where someone is no longer valid, and making fun of them for it. For me I see this as cliquey, bully behavior. Why do people seem so proud in implementing that?
What do you guys think?
