Ghostyyy's question (9)

So me and my ex broke up like two years ago and we started to talking again after new year just basic talk. Annnnnd i usually play around very much after him i didnt got into a new relationships and stuff just random dudes for 1-2 weeks and dropping them. Sooo after we made up nothing went wrong fr just been a while for me being in a relationship i work a lot he does work too we dont see eachother everyday or even once a week and it doesn’t bother me hanging out with him (or any men) bores me, also im biggest hater of sweet talk thing i cringe every time by texts like “im gon kiss you thousand times” and stuff like that. I really appreciate that he tries but i do want to break up right now. Any tips?

Sooo, I had this awkward situation the other day.

My bestie got a boyfriend (he’s not local, he’s from another country), and she introduced him to us. We were mostly chatting together, and my friend started talking about her cheating ex. I have a weird relationship with men—I usually say I don’t fw them. Also, jokes about men (and literally anything) aren’t new for us; we joke like that all the time.

While we were talking, I said, “That’s why I hate men,” and my bestie’s boyfriend got offended. It wasn’t targeted at him—it was about my friend’s cheating ex and, in general, about creeps. Then my bestie asked me, “Can you not say that anymore?”

Of course, I explained that it wasn’t targeted and that it’s just my opinion. I mean, when you’re throwing slurs around every day as a joke, you shouldn’t get offended by something like that. He said he just wanted to make a good impression, which is understandable, but it still wasn’t directed at him.

Now I feel awkward. I apologized (which I normally wouldn’t do—I don’t think it’s that deep), but still… I don’t know. When you spend most of your time around racist memes and stuff like that, it’s hard to believe something like this would be that offensive to you.

Why starting a new job is so EMBARRASSING ?? Omfg i dont know shit yet, annoy everyone to ASK HELP and probably fucking up EVERYTHING. I know it’s like that when you are a new hire but its so embarrassing and im getting so anxious over everything

So I had a TERRIBLE week. I started training at a new job, and it’s been extremely stressful. I have a test in a few days, and if I don’t pass, I’ll get fired.

On top of that, I have to get my driver’s license, so these two things couldn’t have come at a worse time. I can barely sleep, and I’ve lost 3 kg in just 7 days. I also have narcolepsy, so I fell asleep during my driving lesson, which was really embarrassing.

I called my boyfriend to vent, but he was so mean. He literally called me dumb for falling asleep. I told him I was really stressed and that joking wasn’t the best thing right now, but he kept going. So I told him to fuck off.

Then he had the audacity to complain about me saying that. I explained that I’d been having a terrible week or two, but he still kept insisting that I shouldn’t have said it.

I know people can’t always match my mood, but come on…

So, what do you guys think? Should I apologize?

What yall do when drinking too much like not throwing up or sum
Personally i, i cry a lot while being drunk

I was good friend to some lame ass bitches and thats disgusting me fr. Hoes will turn their backs on you IN YOUR OWN CLOTHES

So I’ve been trying to get a minimum-wage job for MONTHS. Every day I’d wake up and see rejection emails. I have so many of them that even my read list isn’t that big.

Lately, I just said, “I don’t care about jobs anymore. It is what it is.” I’ve been working since I was 17, and I’m 22 now, so this was the first time in my life that I struggled to find a job.

But recently I just stopped giving a fuck about all of it, and SUDDENLY 10 jobs responded to me — even some of the same companies that rejected me before. So I stopped caring, and now everyone wants to hire me?
Is this some kind of reverse psychology?

What y’all think about being mixed?

One of my closest girl friends proudly says that she’s racist, like: “our country was so nice before other races came here.” The thing is, I’m mixed — my father is West Asian, and we naturally have thinner eyes and tanned skin.

She reposted some corny TikTok video that said something like “don’t mix your snow with dirt,” and I reached out to her saying likeee that’s not very nice.

She was like, “Oh no, I don’t mean YOU and your ethnicity, it’s about Arabs and Indians. Why are you offended?”

Growing up, I always felt awkward for not fitting in. My last name is long, my name isn’t local, but I’m very proud of my father and I don’t think it’s something I should be ashamed of.

So what do you guys think? Should I be offended?

So I have an older sister, and she has this weird attachment to me. Keep in mind, I’m 22 years old. I guess it was somewhat okay when I was a teenager, especially since she’s only two years older than me, but now it’s gotten ridiculous.

She’s extremely controlling and thinks going out, having sex, or basically doing anything independently is something shameful. She tries to control me 24/7 and spams me like crazy. She completely loses her mind if I don’t answer her. She yells, curses, and has these insane tantrums. At this point, I genuinely feel like something is wrong with her.

She also hates my friends and slut-shames them for no reason, while her own friends are honestly even worse. Like, what the fuck is wrong with her? She just completely loses it when I ignore her bullshit.

Even my mom doesn’t control me this much. I’m a grown adult with a job and a diploma, and I hate arguing with my sister because she’s impossible to reason with. I genuinely don’t know what to do anymore or how to get her to leave me alone.

If any of you have dealt with an abusive or extremely controlling family member, please give me some advice. I don’t even know how to explain how badly she loses her mind sometimes. She’ll literally spam me nonstop while I’m at work.