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if you saw two straight people walking together would you:
a- think they're dating
b - not give a fuck
c - think about them in a sexual way
a- think they're dating
b - not give a fuck
c - think about them in a sexual way
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If you see a lesbian and gay couple walking down the street, would you create sexual scenarios about them?
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before y'all come for me, please read my whole post first and the sources that i cited. this post is purely about fetish, porn/smut material content or "yaoi"/"yuri"/"hentai", since they're basically the same thing. this isn't meant to defend nor offend anyone. im just here to spread knowledge and information that i learned and found, since we tend to misuse some words on certain circumstances.
so i see a lot of people here discussing about whether or not getting turned on by yaoi/yuri (basically PORN) when you're straight is a fetish/fetishizing lgbt people. first, we need to know about the ACTUAL definitions of the word. you can find it here:
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_fetishism
https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/fetish
emphasize on a particular object, a clothing or nongenital parts of the body, meaning things/body parts etc. that ARENT MEANT to arouse you like feet, back, underwear, shoes etc. porn/smut in general isnt included here, since pure porn/smut is literally MADE to arouse you. it helps you explore what makes you horny and what does not. it's fine if some people don't find any particular porn arousing, there are some who just watch it out of curiosity, but it doesn't change the fact that any type of porn/smut is still made to arouse a person. that's why any type of porn itself is not a fetish, rather it can make you develop one.
sources:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/sexualitytoday/201805/why-does-pornography-exist%3famp
https://fightthenewdrug.org/5-things-porn-labels-as-a-fetish-but-theyre-actually-completely-normal/
now, lgbt people (like me) want to know why straight people like to watch gay/lesbian porn. let's talk about straight men watching lesbian porn first. im just going to quote this article about straight people consuming gay/lesbian porn material: "To the extent that lesbian erotica is popular, it can be explained by the fact that men are most aroused by visual cues that emphasize youth and downplay drama and emotional complexity. Lesbian porn, therefore, works for straight men by “doubling up” those visual stimuli, Ogas explained. The only thing better than one nubile, personality-free woman is two of them."
for straight women watching gay porn, I'll quote from the same article: "Unlike most men, Ogas says, most gay and straight women have an emotional, narrative component to their erotic fantasies. Michael Bailey, a psychology professor at Northwestern University who has studied arousal, said when they’re asked by researchers, women say they don’t get turned on by sex scenes featuring two men. However, when researchers measure their levels of genital arousal, women seem to equally enjoy erotica featuring two women, two men, or a heterosexual couple.
“Their genitals get aroused, but that’s not necessarily what they feel in their heads,” Bailey explained."
the link to the article: https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theatlantic.com/amp/article/472521/
let's try to know what fetishists ACTUALLY do when they fetishize lgbt people/minorities or anyone in general. To fetishize a person, as a verb, is to make someone the object of the sexual fetish based on some aspect of their identity. fetishization also includes having an obssessive devotion to something. im pretty sure you all have seen this kind of people in this site openly and PASSIONATELY talking about how hot the "top" is for doing xyz to this "bottom". spending hours and hours of consuming yaoi/yuri for unhealthy reasons. passionately talking about shipping REAL people together, etc.
another situation is when they see a certain type of people on a normal setting as arousing. when they immediately get sexual fantasies just by looking at them and they are constantly trying to look for them in real life/on the internet just to idk, stare at them? and get pleasure while doing it?, then it becomes a fetish.
basically, a person having a deep sexual interest towards another solely because of their sexuality/race or a certain part of their identity, is what makes them a fetishist.
not all fetish are bad though just as they're not all "harmless".
BUT PLEASE, as much as possible, don't just openly talk about your fetishes or boast about them. it can make people who dont have the same fetishes as you do, uncomfortable. if you think your fetish is not only harming you, but everyone else around you, then please seek therapy. sadly, we cant rid of our fetishes, but we can make them harmless by seeking help from a professional.
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/standard-deviations/201605/no-you-cannot-eradicate-fetish%3famp
so i see a lot of people here discussing about whether or not getting turned on by yaoi/yuri (basically PORN) when you're straight is a fetish/fetishizing lgbt people. first, we need to know about the ACTUAL definitions of the word. you can find it here:
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_fetishism
https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/fetish
emphasize on a particular object, a clothing or nongenital parts of the body, meaning things/body parts etc. that ARENT MEANT to arouse you like feet, back, underwear, shoes etc. porn/smut in general isnt included here, since pure porn/smut is literally MADE to arouse you. it helps you explore what makes you horny and what does not. it's fine if some people don't find any particular porn arousing, there are some who just watch it out of curiosity, but it doesn't change the fact that any type of porn/smut is still made to arouse a person. that's why any type of porn itself is not a fetish, rather it can make you develop one.
sources:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/sexualitytoday/201805/why-does-pornography-exist%3famp
https://fightthenewdrug.org/5-things-porn-labels-as-a-fetish-but-theyre-actually-completely-normal/
now, lgbt people (like me) want to know why straight people like to watch gay/lesbian porn. let's talk about straight men watching lesbian porn first. im just going to quote this article about straight people consuming gay/lesbian porn material: "To the extent that lesbian erotica is popular, it can be explained by the fact that men are most aroused by visual cues that emphasize youth and downplay drama and emotional complexity. Lesbian porn, therefore, works for straight men by “doubling up” those visual stimuli, Ogas explained. The only thing better than one nubile, personality-free woman is two of them."
for straight women watching gay porn, I'll quote from the same article: "Unlike most men, Ogas says, most gay and straight women have an emotional, narrative component to their erotic fantasies. Michael Bailey, a psychology professor at Northwestern University who has studied arousal, said when they’re asked by researchers, women say they don’t get turned on by sex scenes featuring two men. However, when researchers measure their levels of genital arousal, women seem to equally enjoy erotica featuring two women, two men, or a heterosexual couple.
“Their genitals get aroused, but that’s not necessarily what they feel in their heads,” Bailey explained."
the link to the article: https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theatlantic.com/amp/article/472521/
let's try to know what fetishists ACTUALLY do when they fetishize lgbt people/minorities or anyone in general. To fetishize a person, as a verb, is to make someone the object of the sexual fetish based on some aspect of their identity. fetishization also includes having an obssessive devotion to something. im pretty sure you all have seen this kind of people in this site openly and PASSIONATELY talking about how hot the "top" is for doing xyz to this "bottom". spending hours and hours of consuming yaoi/yuri for unhealthy reasons. passionately talking about shipping REAL people together, etc.
another situation is when they see a certain type of people on a normal setting as arousing. when they immediately get sexual fantasies just by looking at them and they are constantly trying to look for them in real life/on the internet just to idk, stare at them? and get pleasure while doing it?, then it becomes a fetish.
basically, a person having a deep sexual interest towards another solely because of their sexuality/race or a certain part of their identity, is what makes them a fetishist.
not all fetish are bad though just as they're not all "harmless".
BUT PLEASE, as much as possible, don't just openly talk about your fetishes or boast about them. it can make people who dont have the same fetishes as you do, uncomfortable. if you think your fetish is not only harming you, but everyone else around you, then please seek therapy. sadly, we cant rid of our fetishes, but we can make them harmless by seeking help from a professional.
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/standard-deviations/201605/no-you-cannot-eradicate-fetish%3famp
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has ayone ever almost got caught reading or watching yaoi?
cuz i got caught like two days ago while i thought i was at home by myself, so my dumbass turned up the volume on my computer while i was watching sum yaoi hentai (dont ask). then out of nowhere i hear my dad coming out of his room cuz he heard the sound of my computer and then i was shocked to see him and then i tried to hurry up and turn down my volume but it was still loud enough for him to hear. then he asked what am i watching that got that sound playing? then i literaly admitted i was watching it cuz when it comes to my dad i cant lie to him for shit since i would be to scared to lie abt it.
and my dad was confused since he didnt know what yaoi or hentai was. then i had realized he probally didnt know and i had to put up all my might to lie to this man and told him it was..talking asmr.yes, talking asmr. ik that makes 0 sense but in the end i actually managed to get out of it. so ye that was pretty much what happened but now ill know to either wear headphones or dont be stupid to bring my fkn computer out my room.
cuz i got caught like two days ago while i thought i was at home by myself, so my dumbass turned up the volume on my computer while i was watching sum yaoi hentai (dont ask). then out of nowhere i hear my dad coming out of his room cuz he heard the sound of my computer and then i was shocked to see him and then i tried to hurry up and turn down my volume but it was still loud enough for him to hear. then he asked what am i watching that got that sound playing? then i literaly admitted i was watching it cuz when it comes to my dad i cant lie to him for shit since i would be to scared to lie abt it.
and my dad was confused since he didnt know what yaoi or hentai was. then i had realized he probally didnt know and i had to put up all my might to lie to this man and told him it was..talking asmr.yes, talking asmr. ik that makes 0 sense but in the end i actually managed to get out of it. so ye that was pretty much what happened but now ill know to either wear headphones or dont be stupid to bring my fkn computer out my room.
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So, I was without any chat app for a while, cuz I thought it would help me concentrate for my college entrance exams. And now that I'm in, I just installed everything back... So, I received some messages on whatsapp and could recognize some of them, cuz of their pfp o just cuz I knew their numbers... But then I received a message from this dude greeting me, whose number I didn't know and he didn't have a pfp either... But, I changed my cellphone recently so it's just normal that I don't have everyone's contacts... Then I asked them who they were and they told me they were trying to talk to his uncle. When I told them I didn't know their uncle, they told me they typed the wrong number... I thought our talk had ended there... But then this weird person asked me if we could be friends!
I thought, " Ok, I talk with a lot of weird persons that I don't know anyway... There's no problem... It must be some of these extrovert kids..." Then I told them it was ok...
But, since that point, things started getting creepy...
First they told he was a guy named Pablo and asked for my name... I told... nothing wrong with it... And then he asked me where I lived. I didn't answer and said I don't know him enough to tell this. But, out of anywhere, he told me I was pretty and called me baby?! WTF?! I asked how old he was, and turns out he's 35! From my pfp you can clearly see that I'm less then 35! Actually, I'm 19...
He started bragging for me about his farms and checked my number to see where I'm from and then asked me for confirmation of my location and told me he had a house near...
I stopped answering this dude for a little time and now he keeps sending messages with hearts asking where I went to!!!
This dude already saw my pfp and knows my name, and, from his number, he really lives near here... I don't wanna risk meeting this weirdo outside and have he trying to make anything bad to me or embarrass me cuz I blocked him without notice...
So, can you guys give me some tips on how to get rid of this guy?
Help!!!!
I thought, " Ok, I talk with a lot of weird persons that I don't know anyway... There's no problem... It must be some of these extrovert kids..." Then I told them it was ok...
But, since that point, things started getting creepy...
First they told he was a guy named Pablo and asked for my name... I told... nothing wrong with it... And then he asked me where I lived. I didn't answer and said I don't know him enough to tell this. But, out of anywhere, he told me I was pretty and called me baby?! WTF?! I asked how old he was, and turns out he's 35! From my pfp you can clearly see that I'm less then 35! Actually, I'm 19...
He started bragging for me about his farms and checked my number to see where I'm from and then asked me for confirmation of my location and told me he had a house near...
I stopped answering this dude for a little time and now he keeps sending messages with hearts asking where I went to!!!
This dude already saw my pfp and knows my name, and, from his number, he really lives near here... I don't wanna risk meeting this weirdo outside and have he trying to make anything bad to me or embarrass me cuz I blocked him without notice...
So, can you guys give me some tips on how to get rid of this guy?
Help!!!!
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Do y'all have some good manga recommendation where the fl isn't either dumb, a pushover or a tsundere
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Ghosting is a colloquial term which describes the practice of ending all communication and contact with a partner, friend, or similar individual without any apparent warning or justification and subsequently ignoring any attempts to reach out or communication made by said person.
Question : Is it okay ghosting my ex-boyfriend because I felt locked up in the relationship, my family being torn apart coz the relationship and i think the relationship between us is not gonna work at all?
Question : Is it okay ghosting my ex-boyfriend because I felt locked up in the relationship, my family being torn apart coz the relationship and i think the relationship between us is not gonna work at all?
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I recently found out that cw was gonna have a live-action powerpuff girls reboot but they're teens
And let me tell you its so horrible that they had to re-write the script
Its like the script writers wrote this when they were high and just watched riverdale
Basically
-*Professor Utonium*-:
Prof. Utonium were using the power puff girls for money and made them wear the clothes they used to wear when they were children to make money off of the merch
(Not the worst part btw, just wait for bubbles)
-*Blossom*-:
Blossom accidentally killed mojo jojo and got ptsd from it
(I can't really say that the other 2 have it worse than her because that seems insensitive but the other 2 are worse personality-wise)
-*Buttercup*-:
Behold the worse stereotypical lesbian ever written
Buttercup cheats on whoever she's with, with the person she's talking to
-*Bubbles-*(This hurts cause bubbles was my favourite :')):
Bubbles is engaged to one of the rowdyruff boys but she sold her engagement ring for drugs and she wants to be a pornstar...
And let me tell you its so horrible that they had to re-write the script
Its like the script writers wrote this when they were high and just watched riverdale
Basically
-*Professor Utonium*-:
Prof. Utonium were using the power puff girls for money and made them wear the clothes they used to wear when they were children to make money off of the merch
(Not the worst part btw, just wait for bubbles)
-*Blossom*-:
Blossom accidentally killed mojo jojo and got ptsd from it
(I can't really say that the other 2 have it worse than her because that seems insensitive but the other 2 are worse personality-wise)
-*Buttercup*-:
Behold the worse stereotypical lesbian ever written
Buttercup cheats on whoever she's with, with the person she's talking to
-*Bubbles-*(This hurts cause bubbles was my favourite :')):
Bubbles is engaged to one of the rowdyruff boys but she sold her engagement ring for drugs and she wants to be a pornstar...
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how r yall going to fetishize gay people and lesbians and then be homophobic and transphobic? dont support some of the community and not all of it.... being trans is literally backed by science. yall need to learn the difference between sex and gender the only sexes are female and male because you cant change your chromosomes, but gender is a social construct and u can change it any time u want. "man" and "woman" are not sexes but genders. so trans men are real men and trans women are real women. if ur not gonna do ur research dont talk out ur ass and stfu!!!
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Someone on here just said trans males aren't real men. Like tf trans males are real men just as cismales are. Go ahead and stop reading lgbtqia+ books because being a transphobe won't gat you brownie points.
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There are so many of you here reading yaoi and yuri and being transphobic, Im not even surprised cause you all's fetishizing asses only need gay men and women to make up sexual fantasizes about them, disgusting
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This person under a post said this, i cant believe people like this exist they are basically saying trans men are not real men.
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I'm sorry for the mistake I've done about saying those things but you all were very rude to me I'll be honest I'm sorry
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