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So, I can't remember much, only that two dudes (one has black hair, the other has blond hair) fall for the same guy. The black haired dude is kinda hostile towards the blond haired guy, but that changes as the story progresses. I think near the end, there's a misunderstanding going on (not sure about that part) because the black haired guy thinks the blond guy's in a relationship or something, and he gets super jealous. Of course, they end up together in the end.

If someone knows the name, or can recommend me similar stories (please no smut), that'd be great.

Thanks in advance. :')

I just suggested to my mom that maybe I should start using menstrual cups. I have really bad period cramps and I read online that it could help. Then she started spouting bullshit about how I haven't even had a kid yet, that it would basically be like masturbating, that I was still unmarried with no boyfriend, etc. etc. She also compared pulling out a menstrual cup to giving birth like wtf... And when I said I didn't want to have kids anyway she screamed at me that I should just cut out my uterus then (I do plan to have a hysterectomy when I can tho lol). Anyways is anybody else's parents like this??? For reference my family is Chinese and Christian-ish so maybe purity culture shit. ╥﹏╥

a fav fic from a fandom or fandoms your apart of?

Listen, I’m not trying to be mean or seem like I’m making fun of anybody but I actually wanna know people who get cyber bullied online right how does that work like can you not just push the block button like I get if you go viral on TikTok or like you make a post and you get a lot of hate comments. It’s not possible to block everybody and at one point you already seen all the comments so doesn’t matter if you delete or block them but when someone like one person specifically who’s only way to contact you was online how the hell are you letting them bully you on your own phone like for example I posted an Instagram story. And some random girl. Was sending me hate messages now instead of letting that happen on my own device I instead just made fun of her and blocked her then publicly humiliate her on my Instagram story and on TikTok like can you all not do that?

I'll start. My 6 year old pitbull somehow managed to eat a some of an ADULT diaper (I have a severly autistic brother who was never able to be potty trained unfortunately) without anyone knowing, and i found out when I let him outside to go potty. And when he came in he BOLTS past me and starts running around my livingroom and squating (not sitting) in spirts. call him over, and this dog has a fucking STRING of diaper hanging from his ass to the floor so I had to chase him around (as he's trying to squat and drag this piece of diaper all on all my shit) and legit pull it the rest of the way out his ass with a piece of toilet paper. I'm glad it didn't hurt him, but needless to say we were both extremely embarrassed and exhausted once the whole ordeal was over.. also bonus points for pictures (=・ω・=)

i honestly believe that with the rise of mr a's farms sudden fame and the oviposition in that story makes it feel like everyone is fetishising real life childbirth, the complete loss of your bodily autonomy to start laying eggs.. just like birthing. not to mention eggs look like bald babies heads, i honestly dont understand how can anyone enjoy that. im afraid that these people might even start going to the hospital to watch women during labour or end up breeding chickens in their home.

Like weird but good

just a random (or not) whim but can someone join me with pretending to be smart for a second and like theorized why rape and assault is so rampant and almost (with the rate of how it's going) essential to BL stories? bcos i am genuinely so curious bcos really most of the time the stories doesn't even need it like the plot is genuinely brilliant but it's like there's this invisible force that just compels authors to add a sprinkle of that into the story. is it because rape stories are more marketable? like in an economic perspective it's more profitable for authors to add that because erm the people loves it? do u guys think this theory reflects real life or am i tweaking. i actually want to look at it through an anthropological lense too like; does culture have anything to do with it etc. sociologically what does this all mean.
my lack of expertise is holding me back from deducing anything). so i would really appreciate it if someone can help me.

i want to put a bullet here just in case someone have some theories or answers, if you can drop some research studies too I'd love that very much.

-psychological perspective
-sociological perspective
-anthropological perspective
-economic
-politics
-historical?;?;!!

note: if anything i really want this to be more of a conversation driven by curiosity and less about morally condemning ppl although that is guaranteed i just think it would make the conversation less productive and like slip into digressing from the main objective (god i hope this doesn't get buried bcos i don't wanna pull out chatgpt and help its evolution)

Alright guys, lets open the flood gates. Whats your most CONTROVERSIAL opinion?

Like gaining weight terrifies me. My biggest fear is ending up like those stars on my 600lb life who expect everyone to take care of them while they laze around and stuff their face. (then they claim they've tried ''everything'' to lose weight.) I get that having a fear like that is definitely a privilege, and a bit irrational considering the fact im a healthy weight but ugh everytime i step on a scale and the number goes up i feel so disappointed and disgusted in myself.

opening this thread so you guys can share your love and appreciation for any bl that has given you comfort or you just really like and always come back to <3

this whole month of july it has been hiatus announcement back to back. I’m not sure if its the authors or something else. Im fine with taking a quick mental break or even if the author is genuinely sick & cant work at all. But its getting a bit TOO common.

Whats going on?

Idk abt straight isekai, but SO many of them start w them as a child and grow up w the ml. I understand starting off as a kid, so you get a sense of familiarity and belonging to the world as you grow as an adult. BUT WHY DOES THE ML HAVE TO STICK AROUND THE WHOLE TIME??? Bro ur telling me you can just become sexually attracted to someone the moment they become legal? Like flipping a fucking switch? Clearly that’s not the case, cuz there are times when the mc gets charmed by the kid. It doesn’t matter that the younger one advances at the older first, as a GROWN adult, you can set clear boundaries. Like why can’t the ml show up once the both of them are adults? Or better yet, have them not isekai into a child’s body? A lot of these BL authors are just so fucked in the head to even think of plots like these.

Man I met a lot of devious mfs during lockdown, but I guess time's different now. Point fingers to users who deserve to be thrown at the jail of shame and why? Defendants are free to defend themselves. All for fun, no fighting !!

Okay srsly though maybe not all experienced it. How do you deal when you're telling a traumatic experienced you had with them and they say they didn't remember so technically it never happened.

Anyone have link to manhwa raw?
What I have (Toonkor & Newtoki) didn't work anymore. Ig they change the address. If you have that still work, please share. I'm desperate!

How does it feel

I've been stalking this one user's profile a bit since I saw their silly answer to one of the popular questions a while ago (I think it was about lesbian sex I forgot) just because I have nothing to do and I was surprised to see that although they sometimes follow gooner replies they also post a lot of emotionally mature questions and comments? I was pretty shocked. Idk I guess I just thought of everyone as degenerates up until this point, but have y'all ever come across a mangago comment in the wild and were just like "Holy shit there's still working brain cells in this site"?

this was way longer than i intended it to be but please feel free to discuss in the comments and read my massive rant if you want

the uk government and of ofcom have implemented the online safety act under the guise of “protecting the children” from “harmful and age-inappropriate content”, their number one priority being porn.

a lot of people may think this is a good thing, because the idea is right, protect children from explicit content, but the execution is entirely wrong. sites like twitter, reddit, discord and even wikipedia are being affected by this. i’m not familiar with what’s happening on discord and wikipedia but i can tell you this;
not only is submitting personal identification and biometrics to third party sites for age verification a HUGE privacy risk, but blocking ALL nsfw content (not just porn) from being viewed without ID isn’t protection, it’s censorship, control and surveillance.

you might have heard about the tea app getting hacked and having a huge data breach with 13000 selfies and IDs getting exposed which is a (very conveniently timed) example of the risks of submitting your ID to any company. so now, knowing the risks of submitting ID, are you going to do it? probably not, right? rendering you unable to access mature content period. both outcomes are beneficial to the government, either give away your right to free speech or give away all your personal data to be surveilled at all times.

for now the best get-by for this is using a VPN (proton is a pretty good one for free btw) but soon enough not even that will work with the introduction of the KOSA bill to the US.

on top of all that, with 16-17 year olds now being allowed to vote and reform being the only party seemingly against the act, we’ve basically just handed the country to nigel farage on a silver spoon… great…

another thing kinda unrelated but the removal of hundreds of games from steam and itch.io is also a big threat of censorship in the gaming community. collective shout is a radical feminist organisation in australia that pushed for tyler the creators visa to be revoked in australia for his lyrics being “too mysoginistic” so surprise surprise, they contacted steam to remove games depicting rape and incest and when they didn’t respond, pressured payment processors (visa and mastercard i believe) to threaten to pull out if they didn’t remove those games.
once again, you may think this is a good thing because rape and incest, very gross, but this mindset of “it doesn’t matter because it’s something i don’t like” is what’s allowing these companies to push for more removal of more content. they have managed to get itch.io to remove all games classified as adult games, some that don’t even have porn in them. they also previously wanted detroit become human to be banned from sale in australia due to its “depictions of child abuse and violence against women” which (i’m just going to pull this out of a vice article that they had removed due to them quote putting the organisation under a bad light) “removal of such a game would be akin to artistic censorship of material discussing misogynistic abuse against female family members. Targeting the game, in other words, could be considered anti-feminist in intent.” and also called on target to remove GTA5 from store shelves because it “encourages players to commit sexual violence and kill women.” and allows players to “enact their fantasies of committing extreme violence against women, including punching women to the point of unconsciousness, killing them with a bat, gun or machete, running them down with a car, and setting them on fire as they continue screaming.” which, by the way, you can do to the men in the game too??? like??? it seems like they want all games that include women going through any kind of hardship to be banished from the earth.

along with that, payment processors should not be allowed to dictate what you can and can’t buy with your own money!!! common sense i know but damn!!!

but anyways censorship is on the rise all over the world, it’s horrible, please if you’re in the UK sign that petition even though they gave a really crappy government response and pleaseee email your local MP it really can make a difference.