I realized I liked my best friend when she was telling me about her friendship break up and at that time I was just holding my urge to kiss her while she was in tears
And how I felt so sad and pathetic when she told me about her boyfriend on my birthday
I do want to cut ties with her as she I am still unable to move on from her and find someone ...... reply
One day in my early 20s I just realized how little I care about having sex. Like, I'd watch sex and jerk off to people having sex, obsess over BL and GL pairings etc, but I just did not care to do it myself. 0 fantasies about me with others. Instead I cared about being with friends and family, maybe living with someone I like long-term.
That's whe...... reply
This is how I find out most people dont masturbate, I thought it was a universal experience...well im a man and I do get off on yaoi sometimes, I thought it was the same for women? Guess not. ╮(￣▽￣)╭ reply
Ok now I'm seeing someone throw the word "fetishization" again without taking any nuance into account.
Yeah, I masturbate to yaoi (I read for both porn and plot) and NO, that does not mean I fetishize real gay men or real gay relationships. Those are two completely different things. I read fictional porn because it's... FICTIONAL PORN!! That is ...... 6 reply
In sixth grade I made comics about me and my friends I would give all my other friends boyfriends and half of the time I would have a boyfriend too but sometimes it'd be a girlfriend and when my friends asked why I'd just say "Why not?" None of my friends were surprised when I came out as bi reply
I don't get how anybody masturbates to comicsI read a lot of yaoi but I'm also a lesbian so yeah I don't masturbate to it lmaoo
But like even if I'm reading yuri I still don't...like how are you masturbating to a couple panels?? I'm too busy reading the story bruh 1 reply
Lowkey idk i think i unconsciously always kinda knew but repressed it. Then i reached a point of like wait why not be bi so now im bi.
Like it just gets to a point where u can't say no homo anymore
But the start of the end (of my denial) was in middle school i was diddling the bean, no porn straight rawdogging it, then my best friend popped into ...... reply
this is when reading yaoi becomes a fetishisation of gay men and gay relationships, if u are actively reading about gay men having sex for your own sexual pleasure thats a fetish and ur weird, if ur reading it bc its entertaining and u enjoy it and u aint flicking the bean to it then its fine
edit : THIS MEANS PEOPLE WHO ONLY READ YAOI TO GET OFF...... 4 reply
I want God himself to smite me if I masturbate to yaoi EVER. Like I start my yaoi reading by acknowledging that I am on stolen, ancestral homelands of Indigenous nations. reply
Have you read the BEST new-gen DARK FANTASY, ACTION SHOUNEN MANGA of the 2020s, the peak of human literature, Kagurabachi? If you're looking for a story with a more slow-burning pacing and world-building, but masterfully-written plot, realistically written and interesting characters with great designs, GORGEOUS ART that evolves with each new chapte...... 2 reply
'Things' are your daily life experiences by which you get to know the world around you. Tell others about the things you did, may it be cool, sad, crazy or funny. You can also find things that you might want to do and a friend to do it with!
