I will. But I don't know when and with who I will married. I was young btw, not more than 20y.o. But I want to married when...around 22-26y.o. Taking care of the baby when you must taking care of the house too, better when you still have a lot of power, right? reply
Ah, I get the pressure and stigma. It sucks.
Do we really have to follow this "manual" of life? I don't think so.
To each his own.
People my age are already married and even have kids but I'm not really excited with the thought. I couldn't even see myself being married to my longtime (ex) boyfriend despite being in a hard-to-come-by faithful relat...... reply
This might sound crazy but I don't know cause right now I am inlove with someone. But our love is not acceptable cause we have the same gender. So I don't know...well I do want to get married to that person but it's impossible... ( ̄へ ̄) 5 reply
I actually do not like marriage, when i hear people saying their getting married coz its the next thing on the list or the normal thing to do, it makes my skin crawl, i really can not stand it ughh.
So married will definitely NOT be happening. 1 reply
The first time I encountered yaoi was Antique Bakery when I was 16, I'm 20 now. During those in between years I became addicted to yaoi fan fiction on archives of our own and fanfiction.net. I hardly ever read hetero couples. I was on a tumblr yaoi porn blog and noticed the manga, then a whole new world opened for me and I haven't looked back. I'm ...... 3 reply
I've never been in a relationship before (like, really, not even once), i came from a broken home family and now with my step-father, i still see and hear them fighting over simple things. So i...honestly, i'm scared to get married or even having a relationship with someone. I still have many things that i want to do by myself like going to college...... 4 reply
I've been married for 2 years now (since I was 22) with the person I've known for 8 years. We're both pansexual with the inclination of bisexuality and I'm so glad that we could find each other; we're like jigsaws with weird curvy edges that fit perfectly. Our married life isn't ordinary 'cause we're bisexual but we're happy to fulfill each other. ...... 1 reply
I don't think there's anything wrong with marrying later. I know the stigma, but since a few years back I knew I would (like to) marry after I'm 29, if I ever do marry. Although I like the thought of getting married. Don't let people get to you, you know best if you want to and when it's the right time. :) reply
Well, I think the idea of getting married is great when u have a BF/GF. Because well, it's not for the sake of what people think. But it's for the sake of you and your partner. Don't you want to make your partner happy? It's nice to picture the future together even though you don't know what lies beyond (⌒▽⌒) reply
Funny story here: my boyfriend asked me this year. So a couple of days later we started the preparations. Chose a date, chose the inventations. But then we discused Who we wanted to invite and we could not agree, so no marriage for us lol. 1 reply
Im still a teenage and getting married is boring. Imaging had a husband kids cleaning house, do the laundry for him etc..
To be honest I really dont wanns give birth. Ilove kids and if I wanna have kids I just can adopt them from the orphan whose didnt receive enough love right? I dont know if you guys agreed with me and each people have their own...... reply
Marriage? Honestly, I never wanna get married. Neither do I wanna have kids. Sometimes, I wonder this as well. Is something wrong with me? The society wants us to get married, like it's a mandatory step and there is no way out of it. I'm 23 now but in a couple of years I'm gonna be under pressure to get hitched. I probably will give in and my paren...... 1 reply
Since I was a little girl, I never wanted to get married. I didn't understand why the others girls were so into fairytale, prince charming and wedding. But one day, I fell (literally) on a boy when I was in high school. We never dated but we became friends. After highschool ends we parted and lost contact. One day, we met again and after spending ...... 2 reply
i legit want to get married tbh, but thinking about, "how will my child grow up?" "Will my husband loves me the same?" "What about our future?" Is hard, i mean, i want to marry someone who's the same loving-freakish-fun-weird human, and its a lobg way to go since im only 17 rn (in indonesia, its common to get married at 21 or older, its legal to ma...... reply
This my biggest trouble , yeah 50% of me never want , and 50% other really want. I am such loser but yeah... I hope meet someone who will make me think 100% yes. reply
I won't. First of all, marriage means having kids. Don't misunderstand, I love kids but it's the process of having them that is an issue. Nine months of hell, contractions then giving birth. I'm a person whose pain tolerance is really low..like all time low. I don't wanna experience that. Second, I'm an aromantic person, I'm not a person who can be...... reply
I can't. I've been with the same person for 8 years; we share a business and property so even if there was no infamous wedding cake we're pretty much fucked already L O L reply
To be honest I don't really know if I will or not (I'm 20 but have never dated) so it would sort of have to be the right person and circumstance. I think my biggest thing about marriage is that I don't think that it is needed for people to be together in that sense so in some ways the money spent on it can be used for other things. That's just my o...... 1 reply
I totally agree that the pressure is there, though the way we as a society define marriage, relationships, gender is all becoming more flexible, so I think that pressure is fading and will continue to lessen over time. To some extent, "normal" is different depending on where you are as well (and what general age group you're around); you're much mo...... reply
I might not have a say in this also, since I'm still young (16 very soon 17) the thought had came to my mind before. My family like any family want me or more like expect me get married soon, like when I get to college or during college. I've talk to my best friend about it, she seems like doesn't want to get married at the time (now she's in a com...... reply
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