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What am I? And what am I looking for?
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23 06,2026
For so long I have humored the idea of a more-than-a-friend relationship but I never feel quite ready to start anything, and even if I did, I've never had a chance to experience it.
Whenever I meet someone new, often in a group gathering, I always act more extraverted in the hopes that they'll see something in me. And this is going to sound scummy but in the case that someone does actually end up liking me I think I would turn them down.
Among new and old friends, I've experienced crushes, or something similar. I think about going on dates, cuddling. But feelings fade within a week of hanging around them and what I initially felt never comes back. I should add my friends are great people, they've done nothing to "turn me off"...? Put me off?
I'm more certain than not that my feelings are just the effects of my "prolonged lonliness." Since in addition to having no game, I also don't have any particularly close friends—there's no one I know who I could comfortably lay my head on their lap, our interests are wildly different, etc.
Though I hate to put myself down and don't usually spiral like this I can't help but question these things. "Am I truly bi like I belive or just that lonely?" "Am I uninteresting?" "Do I have an issue?" "Will I ever find love?" "Is my desire abnormal?" "Desperate much?" "Am I being greedy?"
I'm not sure what else to say, I've got more on my mind but this seems like plenty so I will end it here.
Whenever I meet someone new, often in a group gathering, I always act more extraverted in the hopes that they'll see something in me. And this is going to sound scummy but in the case that someone does actually end up liking me I think I would turn them down.
Among new and old friends, I've experienced crushes, or something similar. I think about going on dates, cuddling. But feelings fade within a week of hanging around them and what I initially felt never comes back. I should add my friends are great people, they've done nothing to "turn me off"...? Put me off?
I'm more certain than not that my feelings are just the effects of my "prolonged lonliness." Since in addition to having no game, I also don't have any particularly close friends—there's no one I know who I could comfortably lay my head on their lap, our interests are wildly different, etc.
Though I hate to put myself down and don't usually spiral like this I can't help but question these things. "Am I truly bi like I belive or just that lonely?" "Am I uninteresting?" "Do I have an issue?" "Will I ever find love?" "Is my desire abnormal?" "Desperate much?" "Am I being greedy?"
I'm not sure what else to say, I've got more on my mind but this seems like plenty so I will end it here.
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Am I gay or insecure (repost)
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23 06,2026
i would say this is normal jealousy if you didn’t add that you didn’t like that they flirt.. you got a crunch on her!!! _(┐「ε:)_ reply
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Am I gay or insecure (repost)
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23 06,2026
okay so basically I have a best friend of 8 years and we are extremely close and very emotionally dependent on each other, probably not the healthiest thing in the world but its whatever
Recently she has had this friend and they have been lowkey crushing on each other
For reasons that I don’t understand, this INFURIATES me to unfathomable levels
Like seeing them flirt and match pfps and when she calls her and kind of ignores me (not on purpose really) for the night
It makes me extremely upset like that SHOULD BE ME and it WAS me at a point bruh
I’m not sure if I am just anxious about being replaced or if Im down low for my best friend. We are kinda queerplatonic if I had to put a word for it (she agrees) I just struggle to understand what are romantic feelings and what aren’t
AM I GAY OR JUST EXTREMELY INSECURE AND PATHETIC AND SHOULD DIE
Recently she has had this friend and they have been lowkey crushing on each other
For reasons that I don’t understand, this INFURIATES me to unfathomable levels
Like seeing them flirt and match pfps and when she calls her and kind of ignores me (not on purpose really) for the night
It makes me extremely upset like that SHOULD BE ME and it WAS me at a point bruh
I’m not sure if I am just anxious about being replaced or if Im down low for my best friend. We are kinda queerplatonic if I had to put a word for it (she agrees) I just struggle to understand what are romantic feelings and what aren’t
AM I GAY OR JUST EXTREMELY INSECURE AND PATHETIC AND SHOULD DIE
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