Wow. This exact scenario has actually happened to me and I decided to just slowly cut them off. It's not worth expanding your energy with a confrontation on people who decided to exclude you long ago. Plus, people go different ways once they graduate and what not. Sometimes in life, you'll find people who you thought will always be in your life and...... reply
yeah no distance yourself, no point investing yourself in people who wont invest in you. put in as much effort as they are putting. they help with schoolwork? cool you help in turn, nothing more. even if you dont have close friends, at least you wont have the emotional toll.. cause you WILL find people who'll put in the effort in the future trust m...... reply
Apparently when one of the people theyre friends with make "sarcastic jokes" about racism, misogyny, antisemitism its okay! cus its sarcastic! but when i repeat what i said to the user gloriouskingkabru it wasn't clear its sarcastic cus "I'm not taking pedophilia seriously" So by your logic is racism, misogyny and antismitism is okay to joke for ...... reply
You don't have to cut them completely off if you don't wish to - you can in fact have a relationship with them that is mostly academic. This means you joke with em less, you socialize with them less and refuse to hangout most of the time. But if you need something like notes you just ask for it straight away and to the point.
Cutting off people is ...... 1 reply
It's not the BEST best but i can confidently say this little straw thing with white chocolate and milk chocolate peaked in everyone's childhood in my country 3 reply
You could try talking about this with them and see how they react, they're obviously excluding you but i understand the feelings of having "bad friends" is better than no friends at all, just try telling them how hurt you feel if they are assholes about it i think you should distance yourself 1 reply
I genuinely think these arguments are getting out of hand. Like a comment from me saying idc about jinx and it shouldn't be posted on the forum cuz (as proven) it causes arguments shouldn't get your heated, me and seabi aren't the same person why would I be a hypocrite because she made a post annoyed about jinx she's her own person I can't stop any...... 4 reply
i have a friend group of 4, including myself, and we’ve been friends for over 5 years since middle school. Today, I accidentally found their social media accounts and discovered that the three of them have been following each other for a long time without me. They even have streaks together???
It honestly kinda hurts... Back in middle school, I asked them if we could follow each other, but they just joked it off saying, "Ew no, you’re just gonna spam my DMs with memes," so I just laughed it off. Other times, they’d say, "I'll DM you my username later," but they never did. And now, seeing that it's just the three of them... I feel so excluded. I’m so conflicted right now. Part of me wants to distance myself or cut ties, but they're still helpful when it comes to schoolwork, like sharing notes. but when it comes to actual 'close friends stuff,' I always feel like the odd one out
WTH, your mom seems to have some internalized racism.. like what is "white presenting"? she acts like she is white? she doesnt want to be associated with black people? the hell?
she's having a veryyy over the top reaction on you wearing your hair a certain way you want to and which makes you feel confident, and then from what you've mentioned emoti...... 1 reply
Funny how you triggered both the shota and rape lovers with this one. And funny how all the people who got triggered- rolypoly and piggybank and a few others have always defended rape in the forums. These motherfuckers think a person jerking off to the drawing of little kids getting raped isn't a pedophile. I hope they die a miserable death. Btw st...... 4 reply
'Things' are your daily life experiences by which you get to know the world around you. Tell others about the things you did, may it be cool, sad, crazy or funny. You can also find things that you might want to do and a friend to do it with!