I have discovered yaoi back in 2021 and went on a 2 year gap then started getting back on it this year, I think what helps me reconnect with the genre is to focus on themes that I enjoy, rather then just reading anything with 2 men in it, I find myself rn capable of binging stories like back in my prime, but as someone said, we are humans and our i...... reply
“Ever get bored of Yaoi?” says a fujoshi.
“Ever get bored of anime?” says an anime fan / otaku.
“Ever get bored of K-pop?” says a K-pop stan.
“Ever get bored of Korean dramas? Japanese dramas? Manga? Japanese novels? Japanese movies? Tokusatsu?” says a Japan culture lover.
“Ever get bored of sex?” says someone sexually active.
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I had a friend who I bonded with over anime. She was into Twilight fanfics then she got into K-novels and I put her on to Mgg which blew her mind. As usual she kinda got bored of the Smut so I told her some BL actually have better storylines and her answer was "..." and left it at that. We both straight and have families so IDGAF we both grown and ...... 1 reply
This was me few years back, then I discovered NovelUpdate. Started reading so many light novel that I stopped reading Manhwa unless it's an adaptation. 1 reply
Stick by it until it pisses the other person to the point they don't talk to me for a while cause who are you to start an argument with me I live for the rage bait. reply
I've always found the majority of bl annoying & boring, but I was at least interested in searching for the few good ones that I genuinely enjoyed. It made wading through endless piles of shit worth it when I finally found a gem. Now I have no desire to do that... I'll still read new ones occasionally, and I keep up with the few ongoing ones I still...... reply
I own a dramatical murder ita bag and keep a yaoi paddle on the wall. Get good friends who share your interests, have a yaoi night, getting drunk and watching loveless is good fun! reply
for me it depends if the yaoi always has a smut like literally EVERY CHAPTER contains smut, it's really annoying like where's the plot?? I get the red thread quest but sometimes I js skip some of the smut part because it's js so boring. Although if it's slow burn yaoi and gets a smut in freaking chapter 50 or 100 I really love that typa yaoi smut (...... reply
the only people i actively hide i like yaoi from are my parents and other relatives -- my brothers, friends, and hell even school acquaintances/profs alr prob know i consume bl lmao nobody rlly cares tbh 1 reply
Don't have certain 'phobia' but I have OCD so--well, pretty much same.
OCD with pure-O that has so much this 'obsessive' mind, pretty much pain the ass jist like phobia reply
All of my friends know I like yaoi but I will NOTTTT let my classmates or family know (one time I saw my mom watching a bl drama tho so maybe she’d be okay with it) reply
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