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Hello, all you need to know about me is that I've watched yaoi for a long time now and ... I am a straight girl.
I saw a post on here by a gay man and he was brutally attacked by a bunch of people from the straight and the LGBT community.
I think that he made a point in a few matters and missed points on others too.
The yaoi community is growing larger everyday and with large communities comes trouble.
So what I want to emphasize here is this:
To all the girls who read yaoi. Please enjoy it but DO NOT compare real gay people to yaoi !
Yaoi does not equal gay. Yaoi is just like porn. It is not real life. So please please do not go to gay couples and ask them if they're "top or bottom" or any of those other questions that would make anyone uncomfortable.
You can safely consume yaoi without harming the lgbt community. Always remind yourself that yaoi is not what gay relationship is !
I understand it can be frustrating to be attacked only for liking yaoi but please you need to understand that there are a few ignorant people who paint a bad picture for the whole community ! So please try to paint a good picture by your behavior if you want people to consider yaoi unproblomatic.
And for all LGBT people I apologize if i seemed like I'm speaking up on ur behalf but I was only giving my opinions and thoughts on the matter if there are other things you want to add please do !
12 07,2020
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This is actually my first time on this discussion board and all I have to say that some of these questions are wack asf But seriously I agree with you. Trying to find good questions to answer sucks cause all I'm seeing are these post talking about straight people and how they shouldn't be on here lol Kinda hate it here, I'll probably go back to ju......   reply
12 07,2020
I don’t know if anyone will see this but whatever. I have been pretty depressed since about September. I have lost interest in thing I used to love because they were too much effort. I struggle to get up everyday, because it just seems pointless. I find that I have a very short temper and small things make me angry. It took me a while (until about a month ago) to recognize what was going on, and people always say that recognizing your problems is the first step to fixing them. But it got really bad two moths ago, I was staying with my mom at the time and I was on a erratic schedule where I wouldn’t sleep for three days straight then I would sleep for 18 hours. My mom called me lazy, got frustrated that I wasn’t awake to do things. I want to get help but I don’t know how to tell her. I feel like if I tell her she will feel like she failed somehow, and she is already really stressed lately. Anyone who has some wisdom is welcome to answer.
11 07,2020
about have sex
corndinkle 11 07,2020
can we pls stop talking about this whole heterophobia and oppression stuff. i really miss seeing actual questions, not saying we cant ask questions about this kinda stuff but its really getting old and this site is being super toxic rn. it doesnt make sense how a community that likes the same things are hating each other right now. yea we have different views but damn can we all just enjoy some manga (and maybe some good questions as well)?
also i know that this isn't really a question but people keep putting fuel in the fire and that fire is gonna burn this whole website down if we can't control ourselves. im saying this cause im seriously tired of seeing us fight with each other

hopefully there are others that think like me and i dont get trashed on
11 07,2020
Everyday routine [Experience]
Mustard123 11 07,2020
Everyday of my life. it became so common that I get uneasy even though I'm looking at smthn she wouldn't care or get angry. Bruh   reply
11 07,2020
Would try to experience what another gender has to offer. I am interested in how world would seem and if there would be a change even.   reply
11 07,2020
I mean... It sounds like you're fishing for complements, but I'll give you the benefit of the doubt. Your choices are make-up, plastic surgery, or lower standards for the ugly aspect. If you think your personality is the problem look in to getting a therapist. It's not strange to not have been in love with anyone yet but if you've made multiple att......   reply
11 07,2020
Yaoi is basically the sexual piece in a mlm relationship while bl is the romance in mlm. i personally don't think yaoi is fetishizing and i think its okay to read it but please don't fetishize the sex in it you haven't so its okay :) oh and shiping is all right but don't make it sexual, specialy if there minors   reply
11 07,2020
axima
11 07,2020
I'd imagine going out in to more social situations that you know involve guys would be the best way to get used to them. Then you'll hopefully get close to one and fall in love naturally. Don't depend on him to make the first move though, some boys are shy too! Take that advice with a grain of salt though as the only boyfriends I plan on having ar......   reply
11 07,2020
Digital 11 07,2020
Just something with a good plot, please. Any genre is ok with me (psychological, horror, shounen, isekai, shoujo, gender-bender, etc).
Just not Harem/etchi please, those are the only genres I'm not too fond of.
11 07,2020
Help!!! [Answer]
Digital 11 07,2020
make a catfish account and slide into his dms. (be careful with this though, cus if all the posts were uploaded the same day, he might get suspicious). You could also have an online friend (who he doesn't know and doesn't have any friends of friends with) slide into his dms too. If he bites, then you got him. I'd say I could do that for you but......   reply
11 07,2020
lol if yaoi is "fetishizing gay couples" then porn is "fetishizing straight couples". yaoi is literally just gay porn with drawings and a storyline. (not including bl or shounen ai) why're y'all so pressed about this smh   4 reply
11 07,2020
I don't even find 40 old, so I don't understand what they're trying to do with that "ooooh 30? are you a fosil?" logic either.   1 reply
11 07,2020
id fap fap till the death of me   reply
11 07,2020
I also read Yaoi/Manhwuas, but I know my limit. Some people don't and mix real life with their fantasies. Which is pretty disgusting. And if you do have a gay men fetish please keep it to yourself. Go to a porn site and jack off. But don't fetishize people just trying to live their life. Don't comment stuff that can misinterpreted or say shit to th......   1 reply
11 07,2020
hey! could you be aromantic or gay? your description of your lack of attraction towards men ties closely into being a lesbian or being aromantic. i’m a lesbian myself and my past self relates to this. i can explain more on the matter if you’d like me to do so.   1 reply
11 07,2020
How do i know if im not one of the fetishisers? Cause when i say i like yaoi or bl ppl just casually assume that im a fetishiser (i’ve had this happen to me 3 times, one even called me disgusting) its a genuine question, like how do u differentiate a fetishiser?   1 reply
11 07,2020
Panic first, like what happened? How? Why? Then after eating like crazy move on and do more interesting things,, like masturbate to see the difference, find a lover or two and recreate the scenes I read on the manga ;)))   reply
11 07,2020
I would... attend to a prom? Banquet? Dance party? Whatever it's called, I just wish I had the chance to see all those pretty noble ladies and gentlemen, dancing so gracefully in that gorgeous dresses and suits. It would be feast to the eyes. Then revert to my usual self and jump off the bridge.   reply
11 07,2020
To be financially stable for the rest of my life. No debts, no worries.   reply
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