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Straight girls reading yaoi ????
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12 07,2020
Hello, all you need to know about me is that I've watched yaoi for a long time now and ... I am a straight girl.
I saw a post on here by a gay man and he was brutally attacked by a bunch of people from the straight and the LGBT community.
I think that he made a point in a few matters and missed points on others too.
The yaoi community is growing larger everyday and with large communities comes trouble.
So what I want to emphasize here is this:
To all the girls who read yaoi. Please enjoy it but DO NOT compare real gay people to yaoi !
Yaoi does not equal gay. Yaoi is just like porn. It is not real life. So please please do not go to gay couples and ask them if they're "top or bottom" or any of those other questions that would make anyone uncomfortable.
You can safely consume yaoi without harming the lgbt community. Always remind yourself that yaoi is not what gay relationship is !
I understand it can be frustrating to be attacked only for liking yaoi but please you need to understand that there are a few ignorant people who paint a bad picture for the whole community ! So please try to paint a good picture by your behavior if you want people to consider yaoi unproblomatic.
And for all LGBT people I apologize if i seemed like I'm speaking up on ur behalf but I was only giving my opinions and thoughts on the matter if there are other things you want to add please do !
I saw a post on here by a gay man and he was brutally attacked by a bunch of people from the straight and the LGBT community.
I think that he made a point in a few matters and missed points on others too.
The yaoi community is growing larger everyday and with large communities comes trouble.
So what I want to emphasize here is this:
To all the girls who read yaoi. Please enjoy it but DO NOT compare real gay people to yaoi !
Yaoi does not equal gay. Yaoi is just like porn. It is not real life. So please please do not go to gay couples and ask them if they're "top or bottom" or any of those other questions that would make anyone uncomfortable.
You can safely consume yaoi without harming the lgbt community. Always remind yourself that yaoi is not what gay relationship is !
I understand it can be frustrating to be attacked only for liking yaoi but please you need to understand that there are a few ignorant people who paint a bad picture for the whole community ! So please try to paint a good picture by your behavior if you want people to consider yaoi unproblomatic.
And for all LGBT people I apologize if i seemed like I'm speaking up on ur behalf but I was only giving my opinions and thoughts on the matter if there are other things you want to add please do !
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How do you tell your family you’re depressed
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11 07,2020
I don’t know if anyone will see this but whatever. I have been pretty depressed since about September. I have lost interest in thing I used to love because they were too much effort. I struggle to get up everyday, because it just seems pointless. I find that I have a very short temper and small things make me angry. It took me a while (until about a month ago) to recognize what was going on, and people always say that recognizing your problems is the first step to fixing them. But it got really bad two moths ago, I was staying with my mom at the time and I was on a erratic schedule where I wouldn’t sleep for three days straight then I would sleep for 18 hours. My mom called me lazy, got frustrated that I wasn’t awake to do things. I want to get help but I don’t know how to tell her. I feel like if I tell her she will feel like she failed somehow, and she is already really stressed lately. Anyone who has some wisdom is welcome to answer.
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bruh yall are wildin rn
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11 07,2020
can we pls stop talking about this whole heterophobia and oppression stuff. i really miss seeing actual questions, not saying we cant ask questions about this kinda stuff but its really getting old and this site is being super toxic rn. it doesnt make sense how a community that likes the same things are hating each other right now. yea we have different views but damn can we all just enjoy some manga (and maybe some good questions as well)?
also i know that this isn't really a question but people keep putting fuel in the fire and that fire is gonna burn this whole website down if we can't control ourselves. im saying this cause im seriously tired of seeing us fight with each other
hopefully there are others that think like me and i dont get trashed on
also i know that this isn't really a question but people keep putting fuel in the fire and that fire is gonna burn this whole website down if we can't control ourselves. im saying this cause im seriously tired of seeing us fight with each other
hopefully there are others that think like me and i dont get trashed on
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Manga/Manhwa Recommendations?
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11 07,2020
Just something with a good plot, please. Any genre is ok with me (psychological, horror, shounen, isekai, shoujo, gender-bender, etc).
Just not Harem/etchi please, those are the only genres I'm not too fond of.
Just not Harem/etchi please, those are the only genres I'm not too fond of.
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