First Time Falling in Love
[Experience]
23 04,2020
about fear of men
Am I scared or not ?
[Question]
23 04,2020
Hello!
Since last year I think, I started having a really disturbing feeling when I'm around men. It can be anyone: my father, my brother, a friend, another family member, a stranger in the streets. Really. Anyone.
It starts with an unpleasant feeling. I want to leave, to get away. Then my heart starts beating faster. I get stomachache, I want to puke, my mind becomes dizzy and my entire body shivers.
Maybe it sounds idiotic, but I don't know why these things happen to me. It only happens around men so one day, while thinking about it, I asked myself if I was scared of them or not.
That's why I'm asking here.
Obviously, the feeling is more or less strong depending on the person I'm with. I'm ok when I'm with my father, my brother or a friend. It mostly worsens when I'm around some people in my family (like my uncle) or when strangers in the streets or anything are too close to me.
I don't know if these I get these strange feelings because of everything that has happened to me with men.
I don't know how to stop these horrible feelings, and I don't want to talk about it with anyone by fear of being laughed at because this seems ridiculous....
Since last year I think, I started having a really disturbing feeling when I'm around men. It can be anyone: my father, my brother, a friend, another family member, a stranger in the streets. Really. Anyone.
It starts with an unpleasant feeling. I want to leave, to get away. Then my heart starts beating faster. I get stomachache, I want to puke, my mind becomes dizzy and my entire body shivers.
Maybe it sounds idiotic, but I don't know why these things happen to me. It only happens around men so one day, while thinking about it, I asked myself if I was scared of them or not.
That's why I'm asking here.
Obviously, the feeling is more or less strong depending on the person I'm with. I'm ok when I'm with my father, my brother or a friend. It mostly worsens when I'm around some people in my family (like my uncle) or when strangers in the streets or anything are too close to me.
I don't know if these I get these strange feelings because of everything that has happened to me with men.
I don't know how to stop these horrible feelings, and I don't want to talk about it with anyone by fear of being laughed at because this seems ridiculous....
about get to know you
Thai dramas?
[Question]
23 04,2020
Anyone here watching thai bl dramas?
(Btw can find them on YouTube if interested in topic)
(Btw can find them on YouTube if interested in topic)
about get to know you
What do you think of anti fujoshi?
[Question]
23 04,2020
Personally, I can understand their arguments to an extent like with rape, abuse, and straightwashing. None of these things should be romanticized or celebrated in any way but some fujoshi tend to do that, which is not okay.
I can understand wanting stuff like this to be stopped, but when you go to lengths as far as forcing users to take down their own content and witch hunting people, that's when I have a problem. I haven't personally experienced it since I'm to afraid to post, but people I follow and support have. Someone I follow who doesn't even draw yaoi was forced to take down their art on tiktok because of this shit.
I have so much more to say, but this isn't even supposed to be a rant.
So how do ya'll feel about this stuff, tbh I just wish they were more informed before making some of their arguments.
I can understand wanting stuff like this to be stopped, but when you go to lengths as far as forcing users to take down their own content and witch hunting people, that's when I have a problem. I haven't personally experienced it since I'm to afraid to post, but people I follow and support have. Someone I follow who doesn't even draw yaoi was forced to take down their art on tiktok because of this shit.
I have so much more to say, but this isn't even supposed to be a rant.
So how do ya'll feel about this stuff, tbh I just wish they were more informed before making some of their arguments.
