First, remind yourself that they are not all out to getcha, it is just paranoia. Second try to focus on something more specific than gender, like a moustache, or a certain cologne, that makes them bad. If you make your image of a bad guy detailed enough, you will significantly lower your chance of being triggered. Or, get some professional help $$$...... 2 reply
It is just like staring. If they are hot, its OK, I blush. If they are not, I start shouting, making disgusted faces, and call the police. They get what they deserve. 2 reply
The reason why I hate men is because they bathe in cologne, and I feel like I am choking and gaging every time one passes by. Get a fking clue guy. reply
Hi there,
28 yo here living alone, left my parents house at 17yo to get a college degree. Moved cities 3 times in 11 years.
Step 1 would be trying to figure out which skills are in demand in the sector you'd like to work in to get a somewhat stable employment situation and, put yourself in a favourable work trajectory.
Step 2: would be hoardi...... 1 reply
I've been living alone for about 3 years now, just turned 21 last month. and the first year was probably the worst lifestyle. I ate maybe once every 3 days, I didnt sleep at all (a few hours between my shifts and lecture), and I when I had free time I rotted in bed and indulged in reading/watching.
If I were to pinpoint when this sort of lifestyle...... reply
I can't help you much with the safety questions as I am not a woman, and for sure there are others with more relevant advice to give you on that. However money management is something I do know quite a bit about.
Start practicing keeping track of your expenses using an excel sheet. You can find templates free online. It doesn't matter if most boxe...... reply
I'm planning to start living alone within the next five years, but I don’t know where to begin. I need comprehensive, high-level guidance on everything—from managing daily life without dependency and ensuring my personal safety, to handling finances smartly. I’m especially looking for serious, woman-focused advice on how to protect myself and thrive on my own.
