Ok I just want to know what is love for you guys and how do you know that your feeling is really love?? How are you so sure about that?? What is love?? Im just want to make sure about my feelings :'‹ cuz I've been having feelings for someone for a long time now and I want to know if what I'm feeling is love for that person or just a misunderstanding of feelings
Nope nope nope
Tbh Its hella awkward if I told them about something like this cuz my family is pretty conservative... Like they're open about the LGBTQ fam but still :‹ they'll react bad with me telling them
I can imagine them stopping me from reading things like these :((
I told my 2 close friends about me reading yaoi and they ugh they're react...... reply
Im also lesbian and my dads kind of homophobic but not to the point he will disown me. My tip would be dont telll him unless you are ready to face it, it may be hard but also save some money for that you will be sure that if something happens you have a option. But for me just be true to him even though it may hurt but deep inside he still loves yo...... reply
Honestly, the safest thing to do is wait until your at a point you can support yourself in case he does disown you. It sucks, but it's better to come out when you're independent and can risk being disowned.
Along the way or close to when you can risk independence, without revealing yourself, you could try to slowly open his mind a bit. Gage his op...... reply
I read the entire thing and before addressing your question, I would like to give you my two cents about the whole thing.
First of all, I'm glad you could find the courage to post your story in here (sharing one's story is always a very personal and emotional thing, and deserves the respect that comes with it). Secondly, as a fellow lesbian who fi...... 1 reply
I told my mom a few days after I bought a physical yaoi manga right in front of her, but that was actually a coincidence because the cover didn't look like it at all. She ended up asking me if that's it and explaining that she had a feeling. It was still surprising for her but she didn't mind despite being very religious. She just thought it was we...... reply
I'd have your mum do it for you. It may seem a bit offensive, but you're less likely to directly face a huge outburst and he might be more willing to listen to his wife since they'd be on the same level socially. If it was you he could try to convince you to turn straight or something. Look in to not getting a girlfriend until you're 18 and not tel...... reply
No. No one knows I like Yaoi except one of my girl friend. It was unexpected for me since she's quite religious. So, I was accidentally saw her scrolling yaoi on her laptop (can u imagine it? ), and she didn't realize i was there. I was knocking but she might not hear it so i just enter as she didn't close her door. It took me surprise as she was r...... reply
That depends on how much you trust your parents. I was scared to tell my religious mother that I like yaoi, but in the end she didn't really care. I told her because we're very close despite our differences and I believed she wouldn't ruin our relationship over somethig like that even if she didn't support it. She always said she didn't care what p...... 1 reply
My family is the same. I'm pan and questioning my gender. My dad's fam is homophobic af and my grandma is a devoted Christian. My mom says she doesn't care but if she knew it was her kid she would care. If you feel like you are ready to come out, then do it. Coming out is one of the hardest choices you will make,and no one but yourself can make tha...... 2 reply
The most straightforward method would be to constantly think about it, maybe try doodling the boy or writing about him. Dreams are usually at least vaguely related to something recent that you spent a lot of time focusing on. An example would be dreaming about a game right before the release date because you're excited to play it. Otherwise, if you...... 3 reply
Hey, I'm not an expert on relationships, but I'll try to help.
I think, I would maybe talk to your mom about it, have her talk to him a bit, and then have a whole family talk. maybe he'll come around and try to understand you.
If he doesn't, maybe prepare a backup plan, like staying at that friends' house for a while or having your mom figure out...... reply
KOISURU BOUKUN! Im still waiting for the updates and the resolution of the couple. I was stumble with yaoi upon youtube. I search for romance manga on youtube but there were a lot of results and suggestions. Back then i have no idea what yaoi was. It stated there CD yaoi (BoyXBoy) warning alert something like that. So i click on the video out of cu...... reply
There is something as lucid dreaming. You can learn how to control your dreams and do whatever you want in them. Search some tips up, and work on them. I heard that it worked for some people. reply
Friends know and unfortunately so does mom. Dad might too. My mom went through my phone after an incident and found my wattpad yaoi stash. Another time she found a picture of a manga where one dude asked another if he wanted a bj from him. She was livid. I'm just glad she doesn't know that I'm still reading yaoi. Or the extent of my yaoi addiction....... reply
'Things' are your daily life experiences by which you get to know the world around you. Tell others about the things you did, may it be cool, sad, crazy or funny. You can also find things that you might want to do and a friend to do it with!
