'Treat others the way you want to be treated.' Also a life rule that I keep near my heart and always abide to. So many people including some very close ones in my life are so good at looking, talking and responding to people in a negative way. But if every person does the same thing to others, it becomes a cycle.
Respect is to be earned, not given...... reply
That no matter how much i struggle, i shouldn't push for my friends or family to constantly be there for me.
They don't always know what to do or say, and hearing me say all these things could be quite damaging to both them and me, because i end up looking for advice and comforting words, and they end up giving me ones i don't want.
I've only re...... reply
My advice is 1: never stay in a toxic relationship. Abusers don't change and it always gets worse. This goes for mental, physical, or sexual abuse. At the first red flag, run and never look back. This applies to men as well as women. 2: Make the time and effort to do the things you want to do. You never know when something can happen, accident/illn...... reply
Definitely. Not only because of how much you mature, but it can also be because of your hardships, the people around you, the place you are, and many other things. I just think that people most often don't notice, and that most of the time they change very subtly. reply
Turn back time. Back to the time when I still haven't fully attached myself to my "friend" who backstabbed me. Like damn, it's been two years. It's been a year since we started having sleepovers and regular lunch/dinner dates. It's been more than a year since we've been all clingy to each other and kept holding hands and hugging. We were that close...... reply
Choose your friends wisely. The moment you feel something's off with someone, don't try to befriend them.
This has been my mistake for two years. I knew she always spoke rudely (like really rude - I try to study and she tells me "You just say that but you're not really going to, are you?") to me before although that lessened after a few months or ...... reply
Yes. A friend of mine, a friend for 2 years, have suddenly changed and began shitting on me behind my back. I still don't know why though. And now I don't even know if she did treat me as a friend before - if she never did, then I guess the correct answer to this question is 'No'. reply
yes. Experiencing various situations can change a person u know like death of a person , a relationship or breakup from it , failures , success etc. Well mostly these situations put us in a place where we have to improve ourselves rather than being suppressed or oppressed by their bad or good impact and mature ourselves in the acceptance of things ...... 1 reply
Yes. You are born knowing nothing and have to learn from others. Somebody may be wrong so you can ask somebody else and that's how we learn. We get new perspective on things. reply
I don’t think so. I think people are born with a base temperament. Things can cover it up but ultimately the base doesn’t change.
Then again I’m pretty pessimistic when it comes to humanity. reply
Everything is not all it seems to be. Reality or Fantasy, nothing that we have all thought of since the first humans came, is absolute. Right this moment, whatever we think is real or not real, is not true. reply
To see, to know, and to experience everything...
It's a little vague but no words can describe my wish. Using words for my wish is like trying to fit the ocean in a cup.
Some would say I'm being greedy, others would say I'm being selfish, but I cannot change what I wish for.
It is to see, to know, and to experience everything... reply
Depends.
If you mean personality, sure.
If you mean instinct, maybe.
If you mean in general, not much.
But if you mean humans species as a whole, then let's talk about history... Human problems are the same as when they first came to existence, only that it has different names in each generation. reply
Definitely. Our brain just keeps learning constantly... and its in our nature to learn from life experiences (it’s how we survived as a species for so long lol). But if you’re asking whether or not ALL humans can change then the answer is probably no. Not everyone chooses to learn / change from their experiences. But some (most of us) can defin...... reply
Some of my friends do. If anyone asks, I’d probably answer honestly to anyone EXCEPT my relatives. As for why I wouldn’t tell my relatives...
TL;DR: My relatives are closed minded and I think marriage is a waste of money.
My relatives (parents included) are extremely closed minded. They’re sexists, traditionalists, racists, and don’t find...... reply
'Things' are your daily life experiences by which you get to know the world around you. Tell others about the things you did, may it be cool, sad, crazy or funny. You can also find things that you might want to do and a friend to do it with!
