I thought I was an odd person when I was in elementary and middle school. Never really had an interest in going out with anybody since I didn't know them very well, and I consider myself pretty serious when it comes to relationships.
I noticed that I kept staring at handsome or cool-acting guys though. Looking back on it, I'd rightly classify myse...... 2 reply
I had crushes on girls since the age of 5 or 6. My family is very homophobic, so back then I thought it was like a really good friendship and not a childish manifestation of love. I also remember dressing tomboy-ish.
Years after I had crushes on guys but it they were always kind of obssessive (maybe because my parents were constantly teasing me abo...... reply
Hiii.. i'm very shy and introvert fujoshi from indonesia. I know you feel. Lots of my friends are quite homophobic. I certaintly can't discuss about yaoi with them. Please, kindly add me to your group. Id: makhda. :) reply
For me it was quite a long road to accept myself being gay. First hints started when I was 10 or 11, but I mostly ignored them. I realized that I'm gay on the summer break after I finished middle school and before I started high school (I was 16 or 17 years old). That happened on the first meeting with new people from new class in high school. Ther...... 1 reply
I'm gay. I blossomed with the idea of being straight in order to keep a front with the garrulous, cruel children we call middle schoolers. Although I eschewed I was indeed straight, I couldn't really be happy with myself because it wasn't me; it was a front. So after middle school, I became open with my sexuality. I did not really care for the peop...... reply
I'm STILL not sure whether I'm a lesbian or bisexual yet, but I do know that I realized I would date girls when I was around 11 because I developed a crush on my best friend. I didn't think anything of it because to me it was just a normal conclusion to come to...
I didn't realize that some people might not think that way until I was in high scho...... reply
I am not gay, but I am pan. I thought that it didn't matter if it was a girl and a girl or a boy and a boy it was just the person. So when I figured out I wasn't allowed to be attracted to girls according to society I was like, what? I am really dense too so I didn't know about it till I was like 13. I do know that one of my friends (who is gay,) r...... reply
Hi :3
I realized that I was intrested in other girls when I was 10 or something, although I already had crushes on other girls since kindergarten xD
One of my friends just aked me out of the blue if I could date another girl and I was like yep :3 Just saying this conversation came up because of shounen ai Mangas. She knew that I was reading them ...... 2 reply
Honestly I'm not at this point. I'll turn 17 this year and I've never fallen in love so far and I wasn't interested at all by things like that but since last year I started to notice that I looked at both girls and boys. In past, I would only look at boys. When I was younger, I suffered a lot because I was too kind so I guess it became hard for me ...... reply
I have somewhat always known that I like girls and some years ago I finally found a word for it. So pretty much the same reaction as in that manga reply
God I'm bi and yeah I stressed so much during my teens over the fact that I found girls attractive.. I didn't know what it was I thought it was just because those girls were beautiful and then I realised I wanted to kiss them lol that was embarrassing.. Then I ended up thinking what I did in middle school (I kissed my housekeeper in her sleep when ...... reply
Hello! 24 year old lesbian here!
I didn't realise I was gay until I was 16 years old. All through high school I had boyfriends, but they didn't last very long. Well, I wasn't very interested in them to begin with. Looking back, I was pressured to like a boy because all my friends had boyfriends, so it always felt like I was the odd one out. In hin...... 2 reply
i'm still not sure if i'm straight, lesbian, bi, etc....
i do like guys but i've never been in a relationship so i don't know much about these kind of stuff (basically i get all my knowledge about romance from shoujo/yaoi). i've never seen girls in a romantic way (i did grow up without the knowledge about LGBT until middle school) and i've seen how...... 1 reply
never had a boyfriend and i've seen friends or classmates getting together but i'm not that interested in being in one. i actually think it's quite tiresome and annoying (at times) especially when you still need to focus on your studies. of course, i'd rather spend my free time playing games, watching anime, reading yaoi etc...unless i got someone ...... reply
my first crush was my childhood friend since kindergarten. he was always so kind and funny, at first i just thought "oh i like him since we're good friends." but then i realized it was "i like him more than a friend" feeling. in the end he left without telling me (*didnt have phones/laptops yet) and i slowly forgot about my feelings since he wasn't...... reply
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