Like many people pointed out already, don't rush to fall in love. Some other advice... don't ever idolize anyone too much. Even someone you love with all your heart is human at the end of the day and has flaws. Also, don't think that someone who is very similar to you is automatically the best match for you. It's okay to fall in love with someone w...... reply
Technically, it'd be more accurate to say I turned them gay... Not in the bad way. See, I became a fujoshi because I'm a seme at heart. I'm not trans, I'm just a girl who, through a strange series of circumstances, found out she liked being the pitcher even in her straight relationships (I'm bi). So, in the end, most of the guys who were compatible...... 1 reply
Here's something I don't see people talk about much, it's something I love doing regularly on summer nights, or any non freezing night really. Soo I decided to write this because I wanna recommend it to others, unfortunately it's only worth looking at in a more country like area so for those in the city... Not as simple. I personally go on my roof,...... 1 reply
I can't really give you a great advice without fully understanding the situation and your friend but i will give it a shot. One of the advice i can give you is be there for her. Listen to her problems. You don't have to say the right and perfect thing or even know what to say, just make sure she knows you are there for her even if you don't fully u...... 1 reply
Currently questioning since I've never been in a relationship because I think it is still too much of a hassle for my age, but lately I've been finding women more attractive than men and I am open to all sorts of experiences I guess..? 2 reply
To be honest, I've experienced the same thing. I know I am still a bit far from proper age for marriage but people have started asking about boyfriends (even though I've been dropping hints about my questioning ass) and whenever I tell my friends or family that I would prefer to have pets over children and possibly not marry anyone they would lect...... 1 reply
I have this one friend who is depressed and honestly I don't really know what to say whenever she talks to me about it. The best way is to just be a listener but when you're chatting with her it's kind of hard to not give a response, isn't it? Tried telling her she should seek professional help but her mom is kind of traditional and doesn't believe that depression is a mental illness.
She told be that lately she's feeling disconnected to some people but I know for the fact that one of the factors is her exclusive group of friends that are really possessive. I want her to know that she is still very much loved and appreciated, and I want her to kind of 'loosen up' with her exclusive group but I don't know how. Can anyone help me?
Ask him what he wants to do? Ultimately, it's up to him whether or not he continues down this path that's difficult for him, even if his family might not support him the right way. But listen, his family might think that they ARE supporting him, they see that he's struggling, and they think that suggesting an easier path might help. It's not the ki...... reply
I'm not sure if you were asking specifically for active strategies for your friend or just general strategies because you are curious. I agree with other commenters that it's tricky to give "advice" without knowing the full situation or either party's personalities. I can't completely resist, though, so I will give just a little suggestion.
Genera...... reply
Kim Jaejoong of DBSK (especially during his early debut days) legit look like he came straight out from a manga or anime. Idk about the accuracy of it but I heard he even inspired a manga character lol. Also for some odd reason when I see Nickkhun of 2PM I am always reminded of those puppy dog seme characters in mangas lol. 2 reply
I've once read this particular manga but it was a really long time ago so I don't remember the title or storyline anymore（/TДT)/ but I remember the main character of that manga looks so much like EXO's Sehun, from their hairstyle to the their cool character. I was so shook. reply
i've seen many character-kpop comparison posts! but sadly i don't remember who was paired with who... i know that jun from seventeen was used to compare to some character once. reply
hmm...i feel like this is a comlicated issue and i wouldn't give any advice for this particular situation since i don't have all the details, but i would say this:
if i had a family member or friend who did something i felt was stupid i would definetly call them out on it...to me real support is being honest with people and helping them see their ...... reply
Hi, I’m 20 years old, female and a math student. I started reading yaoi about five years ago and I love it. Everything started with a YouTube video of top anime kisses and there was a scene from junjou romantica. After watching it I wanted to know more about that genre and now it’s one of my favorites. 3 reply
'Things' are your daily life experiences by which you get to know the world around you. Tell others about the things you did, may it be cool, sad, crazy or funny. You can also find things that you might want to do and a friend to do it with!
