Funny thing everyone that I know started getting into Yaoi after they read Shounen Ai, but for me my first ever BL was a yaoi and it was Crimson Spell. I loved it and still do can't wait for the new update. I'm thankful that I read it first it brought me into the world of Yaoi and a world I would Have never guessed existed (you go 8y/o me) reply
I love making people smile and laugh, which has unfortunately gotten me into some odd situations. I don't regret most of them though, since they make up some fond memories. (=・ω・=) reply
Hm.. I'm 22, so not really that old. But still wanted to give in my 2c!
I'd say to someone younger that nothing is permanent.
I'm not saying to laugh tough things off, or say they arent a big deal, because thats just not true. But if I could tell my 15, or even 20 yr old self something. It'd be that no matter how hopeless a situation may feel, o...... reply
34 Years old here. My advice is... life is short and waits for no one. So even if you think on the future, don't just wait looking at your life happening. Enjoy the opportunities life brings to you and don't leave things for "later". If you have someone you hold dear, tell them. At my age you will probably have experienced already the loss of someo...... reply
My advice would be to never depend on anyone way too much. I depended too much on certain people and wish that I hadn't let my life revolve so much around them since it ended up damaging my mental and emotional well-being. People can change and surprise you. Keep an open heart and allow yourself to have friendships and romantic relationships, but l...... reply
On love: You will never find the right person. Such a creature does not exist. Romance eventually dies down and it's a natural progression. To expect that someone will love you on the same intense level from the day you met 'til the end of your days is like expecting the sun to never set. Such expectations on love has lead many people to leave per...... 2 reply
Honestly? I would like to be able say "yes of course". But I really don't know. I think that I'm really tolerant person and I never try to judge others by how they look or if they are ill or something.
It's just a situation where you really don't know, what would you do until you find yourself in the exact situation. reply
Look up stoicism.
Its not a religion but a philosophy that makes a lot of sense, for the most part.
Time is your most precious resource. Spend it wisely with people you care about and who genuinely care about you, doing things that matter to you or those you care about.
Find a a way to be alone without being lonely. This usually means being fine ...... 1 reply
I would like my answer to be that I don't care and would fall in love with the person whether they have a disability or not. But truth is that I have a hard time falling in love and I hate anything troublesome. If I have to think twice about things when I'm around someone I will avoid hanging out with that person, just to save myself some energy. T...... 2 reply
I'm 26 and I would say that, well... everything will change. What is important today, what people you hang out with, what dreams you pursue, the things you like, the way you look at the world, the way the people around you act, your ideals, your knowledge. Nothing is a constant. Acting like something would be a constant will most certainly come and...... reply
A.For Everybody who reply to this thread and to everyone, The best advice I can give is to develop your MENTAL STRENGTH, developing mental strength can avoid you to be in depression. Search for MENTAL STRENGTH to learn more. It is very effective when you feel down or have low self esteem or you feel you can't do anything.
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Life can f-u up without reason (:: never say never 'cause u can change your opinion. Your sexuality and intrest will change. But also learn to say no even tho u can hurt people. Put yourself and your well being first 'cause in the end we only live for ourself. reply
I'm 44, so I'll add my 2c here.
Take chances. Make mistakes. Fail.
And learn from all of it.
The caveat, of course, is that there is a limit to how epically one can fail and still not have life suck big purple fuzzy donkey balls for the rest of your life. But no one succeeds at everything they do. (Even Steve Jobs and Bill Gates, I promise!) E...... 2 reply
27 y/o big sis. One thing I'd tell my younger self would be to take care of problems right when they happen. Procrastination is Satan when it comes to fixing mistakes or issues. It sounds cliche, but it really does only get more difficult the longer you wait.
Also, don't be afraid to ask for help. I had a lot of stubborn pride and made a lot of ve...... reply
27 here. These are just the things I'd have told to my younger-self: jump to the oppurtunities! They are rare and the world's full of beautiful things. Don't hesitate, don't let your fears and worries chain you to the ground. Be confident! You are beautiful, smart and needed! People does not define you, you define yourself and you can be anyone you...... reply
I am 42 and I have only one advice: Do not idealise anything! Do not idealise love, marriage, religion, politics, your career, your children etc... We are all humans and everyone will fail at some point. I often see ppl with lofty ideals and when those ideals come crashing down, some never recover and to this day hold grudges. I see parents who pla...... 2 reply
hey :) I'm 22 (so according to the question, I qualify as "older" :P)
One thing I have always regretted is not trying to pursue my passions or interests back when it would have been easiest. It's really true that the younger you are, the easier it is to learn new skills like languages and musical instruments etc. I had really wanted to learn the pi...... reply
i'm 31 years old. There are many good answer to this question.. some of my advices are written for others persons already, so i'll say 2 that i want to add or emphasize:
1- Do what you want to do. But i'm not speaking only about dreams, i'm talking about all your choices. Dont let others provoke you; dont listen to all the advices/suggestion/etc yo...... 2 reply
'Things' are your daily life experiences by which you get to know the world around you. Tell others about the things you did, may it be cool, sad, crazy or funny. You can also find things that you might want to do and a friend to do it with!
