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You guys are mixing up femdom and sexual assault. The double standards are crazy. There ar...

IamMiffy May 2, 2026 6:59 am

You guys are mixing up femdom and sexual assault. The double standards are crazy. There are ton shots of femdom porn out there that are consensual and still as hot. The male lead is groomed, drugged and sexually assaulted.

bro can u say the same thing if he was a girl? If male lead was a girl, a step mom with the husband and the son doing the SAME thing, this shit would be the same as those cheap ahh porns, with people saying it’s red flag.

Don’t even say “but he’s a guy, he can just say no if he don’t want” Coming from his background where he had debt and all, he had no choice but to obey and keep fucking BOTH of the women. This is manipulation and definitely a power dynamic difference here.

This is exactly the representation of male SA but romantized. I know the story revolves around the girl, and her twisted thoughts, and just because she’s a girl, doesn’t make any of those thoughts right. I repeat, just because she’s a girl, doesn’t make any of those thoughts/actions right. Just make her with a guy, and see how fucked up the whole thoughts and actions are.

And if you’re saying “this is just porn bruh chill tf out” I want you to fucking wash ur brain because the type of porn u goon to can affect your mind. Porn with healthy relationship is still better than porn with romantasized SA, unhealthy dynamics. It is WAY WORSE than it already is. It affects how you perceive real world topics like sexual assault on males, which is already so less aware.

Before you assume I’m using the victim card, I’m a female

Responses
    YOMAMA May 2, 2026 7:13 am

    I fear I read most of them and I can’t find more

    RagingFujoshi May 2, 2026 9:03 am

    What double standards? Do u even know what that word means? Yall learn a word and start spamming it with no brain cells

    IreallyLeviAckerman May 2, 2026 9:19 am

    I don’t want to seem like that person b/c I don’t care for this story; I really only followed along for the guy she goes to college with (he’s hot). I can’t word it properly without seeming like I care strongly, or doubt that this is “SA”, but the guy did this all on purpose??
    I’m not sure when the chapter it mentioned where he looked for that high of the daughter was posted, but it’s there. The beginning is very questionable, don’t get me wrong, I hate this story really only because the mom is involved sexually—it’s gross. They were kids, she would bully him, but he basically said he enjoyed it and was disappointed that she never came back to the orphanage. Him cracking her mom was his ticket to get closer to her, “toy” with her; so he says. I would argue it’s a consensual “roleplay”. Ofc the part where he’s drugged up was either mentioned briefly in that chapter or was just left in the air, either way unacceptable.
    Again, don’t get me wrong I don’t like this story. I do think it’s a little unfair to the story itself to label it something it’s really not. Let’s not forget that this story, along with being a femdom, is a josei as well.

    roro May 2, 2026 9:39 am

    PREACH

    Bofa shiggleshart May 2, 2026 10:08 am

    THANK YOU.

    Cadapech May 2, 2026 10:19 am
    What double standards? Do u even know what that word means? Yall learn a word and start spamming it with no brain cells RagingFujoshi

    Since you seem to be having trouble (yes this is meant to be condescending) "I'll do anything so please don't tell your mother" is NOT giving consent.

    roro May 2, 2026 10:51 am
    What double standards? Do u even know what that word means? Yall learn a word and start spamming it with no brain cells RagingFujoshi

    Bae look up the meaning of double standards before you come on here tryna act like a smart ass when u don't even have a clue abt what's going on so embarrassing lmao

    Bofa shiggleshart May 2, 2026 11:04 am
    Bae look up the meaning of double standards before you come on here tryna act like a smart ass when u don't even have a clue abt what's going on so embarrassing lmao roro

    Ily

    IamMiffy May 2, 2026 11:09 am
    I don’t want to seem like that person b/c I don’t care for this story; I really only followed along for the guy she goes to college with (he’s hot). I can’t word it properly without seeming like I care ... IreallyLeviAckerman

    I agree with what most of you have said. Ts is hella interesting story with handsome ahh characters. The reason why I said all this is because A LOT of people are just ignoring the red flags. Yea, this is supposed to be kinky shit but you have to admit that there is some kind of unacceptable things that need to be pointed out.

    Just because the drugging happened “once” doesn’t make it better. And male lead doing allat just to see female lead is also NOT NORMAL! Just because he’s doing it knowingly doesn’t make it better either. Just says how fucked up his brain is. Bro male lead is MC’s AGE!! And the mother— so much older is knowingly grooming him. Yes, he is adult, but there’s still a big gap in level of maturity too. The mother has her authority, money and sex. That’s when the unfair power dynamic comes to play.

    love josei and drama but what im trying to do is spread awareness. This is kinky and hot yes, but just swap out the genders bro. [A 20smt girl dating and live tgt with 40smt unc and that unc’s son also treated her like shit and use her], like?? if it goes like that the audience will treat this story VERY differently. That’s what I mean by DOUBLE STANDARDS.

    (Also not all is intended to you I wanted to add more)

    RagingFujoshi May 2, 2026 2:53 pm
    Since you seem to be having trouble (yes this is meant to be condescending) "I'll do anything so please don't tell your mother" is NOT giving consent. Cadapech

    Still makes no sense, what exactly are people having double standards about? You are acting as if this is the first story in history where consent is blurry or not given. So once again u don't know what the phrase means and are just spamming it, hope this helps

    RagingFujoshi May 2, 2026 2:55 pm
    Bae look up the meaning of double standards before you come on here tryna act like a smart ass when u don't even have a clue abt what's going on so embarrassing lmao roro

    Ik what double standards means u idiot, the writer is using it wrong. They just say double standards and have no context or explanation, what exactly is the double standard? Maybe you should use your brain and stop being biased for 2 seconds, dick riding some random that doesnt care about you. Both of u need to go back to basic english class and learn how to communicate, Hope this helps

    RagingFujoshi May 2, 2026 3:03 pm
    Since you seem to be having trouble (yes this is meant to be condescending) "I'll do anything so please don't tell your mother" is NOT giving consent. Cadapech

    Wow great, you explained what not giving consent is, wow so stupid and off topic. I asked what is the double standard not how is he not giving consent. Maybe learn basic english and comprehension skills before replying to me, just proving my even more

    IamMiffy May 2, 2026 4:54 pm
    Ik what double standards means u idiot, the writer is using it wrong. They just say double standards and have no context or explanation, what exactly is the double standard? Maybe you should use your brain and ... RagingFujoshi

    Woah, I am sorry if I used the words “double standards” wrongly because hey, English ain’t my first language man! But when I googled it, it is: a rule or standard of good behaviour that, unfairly, some people are expected to follow or achieve but other people are not. According to Cambridge dictionary!

    And well, I think I used it correctly no?
    Unfair to some people— as in male and female! The treatment of male and female in SA representation in manhwa!
    I won’t repeat again, just go read what I said above about swapping the genders out.

    In conclusion, what I meant was that the standard of girls needing pity and careful attention when they are SA, VS when a guy being SA yet the standard is “oh, hot. Femdom” that’s what I’m trying to imply!

    If only YOU didn’t get it and a lot of other people got it, maybe it’s time for u to improve ur English! For me, reading ao3 or fanfics works haha.

    Also, please do remember to be intellectually honest and kind, and if we’re talking about the manhwa, we’ll talk about the manhwa! We can agree to disagree!

    Not fucking saying bullshit and talk shit about people u dumbfuck.

    Cadapech May 2, 2026 6:53 pm
    Wow great, you explained what not giving consent is, wow so stupid and off topic. I asked what is the double standard not how is he not giving consent. Maybe learn basic english and comprehension skills before ... RagingFujoshi

    Aren't you something. I want you to reread what I said, and then maybe think hard as to WHY I said it. I'm not going to hold your hand since you claim to have such good reading comprehension skills.

    Cadapech May 2, 2026 6:54 pm
    Woah, I am sorry if I used the words “double standards” wrongly because hey, English ain’t my first language man! But when I googled it, it is: a rule or standard of good behaviour that, unfairly, some pe... IamMiffy

    Ragingfujoshi genuinely doesn't understand what double standards means. You used the term correctly.

    Bofa shiggleshart May 2, 2026 7:04 pm
    Wow great, you explained what not giving consent is, wow so stupid and off topic. I asked what is the double standard not how is he not giving consent. Maybe learn basic english and comprehension skills before ... RagingFujoshi

    Me when I don’t read my OWN text

    Lilmushroom May 2, 2026 7:16 pm

    Can u suggest some good ones? I Love femdom but most i find end up rapeyyy

    roro May 2, 2026 7:37 pm
    Ik what double standards means u idiot, the writer is using it wrong. They just say double standards and have no context or explanation, what exactly is the double standard? Maybe you should use your brain and ... RagingFujoshi

    Bitch you can't even spell right, tf R U on about and yes, the writer is using double standards right because people are treating the dub-con as normal consensual sex because of double standards. If it was a man manipulating and using force against a girl, the response would be entirely different. Since the gender roles are swapped, the response is completely neutral and positive, viewing the sexual assault to be an act of strength and dominance when it's just a heinous act committed by a woman who's exploiting a man's vulnerability to engage in sexual activities. Hope this helped you, you idiotic muppet! P.S. Not everybody needs to explain with context you dumb fuck, don't blame the writer for your incapability to process an argument without considering context clues, lmao

    roro May 2, 2026 7:38 pm
    Woah, I am sorry if I used the words “double standards” wrongly because hey, English ain’t my first language man! But when I googled it, it is: a rule or standard of good behaviour that, unfairly, some pe... IamMiffy

    You used it right, the other person is just genuinely retarded and has some sort of superiority complex... For no reason brah it's just delusion atp

    roro May 2, 2026 7:38 pm
    Me when I don’t read my OWN text Bofa shiggleshart

    LITERALLY