I don’t want to seem like that person b/c I don’t care for this story; I really only followed along for the guy she goes to college with (he’s hot). I can’t word it properly without seeming like I care strongly, or doubt that this is “SA”, but the guy did this all on purpose??
I’m not sure when the chapter it mentioned where he looked for that high of the daughter was posted, but it’s there. The beginning is very questionable, don’t get me wrong, I hate this story really only because the mom is involved sexually—it’s gross. They were kids, she would bully him, but he basically said he enjoyed it and was disappointed that she never came back to the orphanage. Him cracking her mom was his ticket to get closer to her, “toy” with her; so he says. I would argue it’s a consensual “roleplay”. Ofc the part where he’s drugged up was either mentioned briefly in that chapter or was just left in the air, either way unacceptable.
Again, don’t get me wrong I don’t like this story. I do think it’s a little unfair to the story itself to label it something it’s really not. Let’s not forget that this story, along with being a femdom, is a josei as well.
I agree with what most of you have said. Ts is hella interesting story with handsome ahh characters. The reason why I said all this is because A LOT of people are just ignoring the red flags. Yea, this is supposed to be kinky shit but you have to admit that there is some kind of unacceptable things that need to be pointed out.
Just because the drugging happened “once” doesn’t make it better. And male lead doing allat just to see female lead is also NOT NORMAL! Just because he’s doing it knowingly doesn’t make it better either. Just says how fucked up his brain is. Bro male lead is MC’s AGE!! And the mother— so much older is knowingly grooming him. Yes, he is adult, but there’s still a big gap in level of maturity too. The mother has her authority, money and sex. That’s when the unfair power dynamic comes to play.
love josei and drama but what im trying to do is spread awareness. This is kinky and hot yes, but just swap out the genders bro. [A 20smt girl dating and live tgt with 40smt unc and that unc’s son also treated her like shit and use her], like?? if it goes like that the audience will treat this story VERY differently. That’s what I mean by DOUBLE STANDARDS.
(Also not all is intended to you I wanted to add more)
Ik what double standards means u idiot, the writer is using it wrong. They just say double standards and have no context or explanation, what exactly is the double standard? Maybe you should use your brain and stop being biased for 2 seconds, dick riding some random that doesnt care about you. Both of u need to go back to basic english class and learn how to communicate, Hope this helps
Woah, I am sorry if I used the words “double standards” wrongly because hey, English ain’t my first language man! But when I googled it, it is: a rule or standard of good behaviour that, unfairly, some people are expected to follow or achieve but other people are not. According to Cambridge dictionary!
And well, I think I used it correctly no?
Unfair to some people— as in male and female! The treatment of male and female in SA representation in manhwa!
I won’t repeat again, just go read what I said above about swapping the genders out.
In conclusion, what I meant was that the standard of girls needing pity and careful attention when they are SA, VS when a guy being SA yet the standard is “oh, hot. Femdom” that’s what I’m trying to imply!
If only YOU didn’t get it and a lot of other people got it, maybe it’s time for u to improve ur English! For me, reading ao3 or fanfics works haha.
Also, please do remember to be intellectually honest and kind, and if we’re talking about the manhwa, we’ll talk about the manhwa! We can agree to disagree!
Not fucking saying bullshit and talk shit about people u dumbfuck.
Bitch you can't even spell right, tf R U on about and yes, the writer is using double standards right because people are treating the dub-con as normal consensual sex because of double standards. If it was a man manipulating and using force against a girl, the response would be entirely different. Since the gender roles are swapped, the response is completely neutral and positive, viewing the sexual assault to be an act of strength and dominance when it's just a heinous act committed by a woman who's exploiting a man's vulnerability to engage in sexual activities. Hope this helped you, you idiotic muppet! P.S. Not everybody needs to explain with context you dumb fuck, don't blame the writer for your incapability to process an argument without considering context clues, lmao

You guys are mixing up femdom and sexual assault. The double standards are crazy. There are ton shots of femdom porn out there that are consensual and still as hot. The male lead is groomed, drugged and sexually assaulted.
bro can u say the same thing if he was a girl? If male lead was a girl, a step mom with the husband and the son doing the SAME thing, this shit would be the same as those cheap ahh porns, with people saying it’s red flag.
Don’t even say “but he’s a guy, he can just say no if he don’t want” Coming from his background where he had debt and all, he had no choice but to obey and keep fucking BOTH of the women. This is manipulation and definitely a power dynamic difference here.
This is exactly the representation of male SA but romantized. I know the story revolves around the girl, and her twisted thoughts, and just because she’s a girl, doesn’t make any of those thoughts right. I repeat, just because she’s a girl, doesn’t make any of those thoughts/actions right. Just make her with a guy, and see how fucked up the whole thoughts and actions are.
And if you’re saying “this is just porn bruh chill tf out” I want you to fucking wash ur brain because the type of porn u goon to can affect your mind. Porn with healthy relationship is still better than porn with romantasized SA, unhealthy dynamics. It is WAY WORSE than it already is. It affects how you perceive real world topics like sexual assault on males, which is already so less aware.
Before you assume I’m using the victim card, I’m a female