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How are you more annoyed of a victim?

junSuke May 29, 2026 7:09 am

Posting my other important posts to help answer what granny did, why people shouldn’t compare Hyesung’s ‘abandonment’ and his mother’s abandonment, etc. and so I can go back to my previous posts without searching.

https://www.mangago.me/home/mangatopic/22275841/

https://www.mangago.me/home/mangatopic/22280162/

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It’s odd for some to dislike a traumatized person who grew up without familial support but not mentioning the husband who got his way. Dojin raped him, gaslit him, etc. Hyesung didn’t even know pregnant people’s stomach grow over time, if I remember right. And he was barely an adult at the time, not sure how old but someone mentioned he was 18? In Korea that is not an adult, whereas Dojin was 20? Regardless, it’s clear Hyesung was not fully grown yet people shit on him more.

That’s why I love Hyesung more and feel more sorry for Hyesung than for Dojin. Dojin grew up in a well off and happy family. How in the world do some people expect me to like Dojin more or as equally? He’s just not likable enough to forgive his past actions.

Dojin may be a good father and husband now, but it does not magically erase the things he did and has been doing. I don’t understand how it’s hard to have sympathy for someone like Hyesung. How do people not sympathize after knowing he went through all of this? I used to be a Hyseung hater and I was a kid at the time. I used to think Dojin was better. I have matured in that aspect.

It’s nice to see that Hyesung isn’t anxious to meet his mother anymore.
I remember him having a breakdown or something in the past.
He deserves closure, peace, and may this be the final. Also I am disappointed with the author’s choice to drag it out. This should have been done in the main story, and Byul should never have a deep bond with the granny. The granny does not deserve to see her son’s children. Dojin knew Byul was seeing her, and didn’t let Hyesung know.

See, this is the issue.

Responses
    Lana May 29, 2026 8:18 am

    Thank you for your explanation. You nailed the issue! I agree with every point.

    Watcher May 29, 2026 11:30 am

    True. Idk how people don't acknowledge Dojin was the one to force the relationship and baby on Hyesung.

    Hyesung was assaulted, baby-trapped, and guilt-tripped. And yet viewers hated him for "leaving" (i.e. escaping).

    Dojin to Hyesung is like Pepe Le Pew to that poor female cat. But no one would ever blame the cat for trying to escape lol. I guess the difference is that Dojin provided a really nice prison: A warm apartment full of food, accommodation, and clothing.

    But imagine just turning 20 and suddenly finding out you have a uterus, then having to give birth just 6 months later. It was all so fast and Hyesung not really having much of a choice in all this.

    Hyesung believed his whole life that he was an alpha, had his own dreams to become rich and successful, and to become a father himself. Now suddenly he was an omega, fired and lost other job opportunities to support himself because of it, forced to move out of the place he was staying at because of an alpha harassing him in his sleep, has no reliable family to go home to, and he hasn't even finished his highschool education.

    To the audience, Dojin appears like a savior of Hyesung for taking him in these circumstances, but actually this is called "taking advantage of someone at their rock bottom".

    In exchange for living in his home, Dojin would force himself on Hyesung physically, even though he promised he wouldn't. That should've obviously shown the audience that Hyesung is the victim, but nope.

    In the end, people still got mad at the young naive homeless 20 year old with no parents no job no education, for running away from the baby he was forced to have and the man who forced him to have it.

    Dojin, by the way, was mostly just a stranger to Hyesung. He barely knows him, now he's expected to spend the rest of his life raising a child with him.

    Also, Hyesung left, but he wholeheartedly believed the baby would be happy and well-taken care of since Dojin was wealthy and seemed attentive to childcare. It's not like he left the baby to the sharks.

    junSuke May 31, 2026 12:44 pm
    True. Idk how people don't acknowledge Dojin was the one to force the relationship and baby on Hyesung. Hyesung was assaulted, baby-trapped, and guilt-tripped. And yet viewers hated him for "leaving" (i.e. esca... Watcher

    Preach, I appreciate the detailed effort. It’s not really abandonment in Hyesung’s case, there was another parent (Dojin) and the fact he was raped + baby trapped matters way more, he never wanted Byul and that’s okay. Why shame victims for not wanting a kid that happened from a toxic environment/relationship? Byul isn’t the victim here. However it’s abusive for a mother to leave a growing kid with an abuser. Keyword: leaving kid with an abuser.

    She is an accomplice even if she didn’t mean it. She also ‘accidentally’ blamed Hyesung for not coming to find her. Ridiculous! She started a new family without frantic searching thar you’d expect of a parent who loves their kid. She was probably relieved to let go of burdens.

    Right. If Dojin wasn’t good looking and rich, people wouldn’t look past the rape. I have seen the difference and it’s very telling. I understand if a minor thinks Dojin is nicer because they’re…young, but if a grown adult sided with Dojin, yikes. Imagine an uglier and balding salary man raping someone, nobody will forget the rape nor blame the victim.

    And it’s fine to have preferences, but looks and wealth definitely plays a role in taking advantage of readers as well. I haven’t forgotten about Dojin’s friend (I forgot his name, Heeseo?) who hid him and used to also gaslight him, as if he was the bad guy/idiot.

    Everyone forgot about what Dojin did to Hyesung. This story glazed it over and it’s obvious, yet some readers still blame Hyesung. It shows their immaturity and lack of self respect. What irritates me the most is how Dojin gave the granny a home + living expenses for all these years while Byul grew up. It’s about the same amount of years Hyesung had to fend for himself.

    junSuke May 31, 2026 12:44 pm
    Thank you for your explanation. You nailed the issue! I agree with every point. Lana

    Thank you!

    Watcher May 31, 2026 2:10 pm
    Preach, I appreciate the detailed effort. It’s not really abandonment in Hyesung’s case, there was another parent (Dojin) and the fact he was raped + baby trapped matters way more, he never wanted Byul and ... junSuke

    Yess, and now you reminded of what Heesoo did too now actually.

    I remember how he kept telling Hyesung "The rich family is out to get you and punish you for having the baby" and "Dojin already discarded the baby, why would you think he'd raise it".

    Like, Hyesung didn't come back for months because that dude lied about a bunch of things and made him believe the rich family was going to hurt him. Making Hyesung scared shitless to the point of almost leaving the country with a fake passport.

    And making him believe the baby had already been sent far away, so how was Hyesung supposed to know there was even a baby to come back to?

    junSuke June 1, 2026 7:37 am
    Yess, and now you reminded of what Heesoo did too now actually.I remember how he kept telling Hyesung "The rich family is out to get you and punish you for having the baby" and "Dojin already discarded the baby... Watcher

    That’s even worse than I remembered. You remember good details, taking note. Thank you

    Iloveblackgreentops June 1, 2026 4:03 pm

    Thank you for taking your time to write this, I really appreciate this comment, this is what I thought, I hate that people still sympathy dojin and hyesung mother and not seeing what they have did to hyesung.
    I won't say it's byul fault, he's still a teenager and doesn't know about everything, I really hope hyesung won't forgive her mother in next chapter, she shouldn't be forgiven that easily.

    MeowMeowBitch June 3, 2026 8:09 pm

    Sometimes I think..they having luna after 15-16 years later..it's also sus like what if it was dojin's way to keep him here, i remember hyesung was told he can't get pregnant and dojin would do it with him without protection..even though hyesung would told him not to.