Communication needs to be separated from DS play (especially for this couple with where they are in the early stages of their relationship), something I HOPED they learned last time when the dom pushed the sub into genuine distress because he used his domination rp to be all passive aggressive about his feelings AND HES FUCKING DOING IT AGAIN HE WAS SO EXCITED TO TRY REAL BONDAGE FOR THE FIRST TIME and then how he immediately felt like the whole experience is ruined because the dom is being an actual piss baby and throwing a tantrum is sooo tragic and actually makes me so sad
Domming like this to vent your feelings out onto your partner is such an inappropriate (and borderline abusive) outlet It's one thing to do a jealous partner rp with full informed consent from both parties, but that's not what this was. The play was bondage and the jealousy isn't being roleplayed. It's real and making him act like a dick and do things that his partner may or may not have agreed to in a stable state of mind & body (...not that he's even properly asking/communicating how this "play" goes even in the moment but whatever). And ANSWERING HIS PHONE??? That is a violation on soooo many levels (and is a personal pet peeve of mine since it happens in wayyy too many manga for actually no reason)
It's not the biggest deal since it is just fiction But real people (some very young and impressionable) read this and internalize this kind of shit And this manga in particular is pretty indepth on a lot of the aspects of bdsm stuff so it's not hard to imagine someone buying into it 100%
Communication needs to be separated from DS play (especially for this couple with where they are in the early stages of their relationship), something I HOPED they learned last time when the dom pushed the sub into genuine distress because he used his domination rp to be all passive aggressive about his feelings AND HES FUCKING DOING IT AGAIN
HE WAS SO EXCITED TO TRY REAL BONDAGE FOR THE FIRST TIME and then how he immediately felt like the whole experience is ruined because the dom is being an actual piss baby and throwing a tantrum is sooo tragic and actually makes me so sad
Domming like this to vent your feelings out onto your partner is such an inappropriate (and borderline abusive) outlet
It's one thing to do a jealous partner rp with full informed consent from both parties, but that's not what this was. The play was bondage and the jealousy isn't being roleplayed. It's real and making him act like a dick and do things that his partner may or may not have agreed to in a stable state of mind & body (...not that he's even properly asking/communicating how this "play" goes even in the moment but whatever). And ANSWERING HIS PHONE??? That is a violation on soooo many levels (and is a personal pet peeve of mine since it happens in wayyy too many manga for actually no reason)
It's not the biggest deal since it is just fiction
But real people (some very young and impressionable) read this and internalize this kind of shit
And this manga in particular is pretty indepth on a lot of the aspects of bdsm stuff so it's not hard to imagine someone buying into it 100%