Pls recommend me a realistic BDSM story or at least without all the myths of being abusive...

Well if yaoi bdsm is what we’re talking about most of the mangas out there are most likely sterotypjcal and abusive. BDSM in the name itself is about asserting dominance and sonetimes together with bondage. I know there are some bdsm where the dom also cares about the sub. But for now, I can’t find any (except probably the second couple in BJ Alex, bu you can find a lot more in the tag:
http://mangago.me/tag/bdsm

If you don’t mind it bring plot heavy then read Blood Bank http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/blood_bank/?av=1 (seriously one of my favorites of all time)
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/momentum_park_ji_yeon/?av=1 The therapist and trainer stories are good bdsm, therapist is one of my favorites of all time. This one is a collection of different storylines which some connect together. Therapist starts on chapter 26 and Trainer is the story right after that one chapter 35
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/ai_subeki_sadist/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/sm_gokko/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/motto_musunde_aite_waya/ (More of comedy if I remember correctly but a fun read)

It's not yaoi but it's a good story

Nana to Kaoru

I've read it a little, BDSM isn't my thing, but from what I've seen its a better representation of BDSM than those that express abuse.

http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/yume_no_you_na_hanashi/
http://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/216064/

Lol where's blood bonk?

Points of three is a good one, its yaoi tho

SM Gokko is one of my favourite.

Ai Subeki Sadist is a very good one too! ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~

First link!

Don't listen to her. She made fun of you

Yeah, I don’t get what she’s trying to make fun of. Whatevs ╮(￣▽￣)╭

You said Blood Bank manga, she said Blood Bonk who is a mangago celebrity. Keep scrolling for several pages and you might find the user I talked about. Always says "whomp whomp" she is insane

Ahh I see. Yeah I wouldn’t know that.

You’re cute

Lmaooo good reply. She will be aware of you in the future whomp whomp

What a way to ruin the thread. Thanks for nothing

Thanks a lot for the suggestions! I found a josei called sadistic beauty if you are interested too.

Sadistic Beauty is very good from the little I read!