I wouldnt stop doing something I like cuz someone else behind some screen think it bad and feel hurt lmao , offense is never given it only taken .. and yaoi is fiction if it effect your life on personal level then that your problem , hentai in my opinion much worst then yaoi yet you dont see women going around vilifying anyone who read hentai reply
I personally think people who go to porn sites and preach about how sinful it is are hypocrites , and also people who go to yaoi spaces to preach are same , so while I have many problems with incest shotcon misogny in many kind hentai and even some yaoi mangas , I just escape those mangas never go close to them or read them , so if I can do that an...... 1 reply
plz clarify if you straight or gay/lesbain , and if you girl or boy when you answer .
and did you tell your family you into yaoi ? did they mistake you being gay/lesbain cuz of it ?
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my answer : I don't tell my family cuz they religious , but when I tell straight guys online that I like yaoi they think I am lesbain cuz of it or bi , I am straight , when I tell gayguys some them accuss me of being fetishizing gays BUT this discussion for another day , anyway I never felt like I want to top straight or even any type man in any way and I am not into anal sex in all it form whether I peg the man or him doing it to me , I am straight but people think cuz I like BL and yaoi that I am gay/lesbain which is confusing to me like where is the connection between my own sexuality and what I like to read ( ̄へ ̄).
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share your own stories would like to read them ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ノ~
....... Also my own opinion on matter + story about me . I think some fetish are deeply rooted of self hate & sexual trauma ..
First I am virgin , I have never molested or raped anyone , I am straight but I hate heterosexual porn and heterosex in general and thing female bodies are disgusting .. I am female myself and hate my own body, I been sexually harassed and when I told my mom she slapped me and said cuz I dress like wh*re , I was 15yr at that time and had not even had my period yet , I was late bloomer so my breasts and body was still that of child eventhought other girls in my class had started to wear bras and wear hijab .. I didn't cuz I was in swimming team and wearing hijab meant I had to quit swimming ..
Anyway back to the main story .. about rape fetish , I don't want to rape men but I enjoy reading mangas that have small seme huge seme being pent down and forced by smallet looking guy .. I tried to think it was just preference but I think it connected to my trauma of sexually harassed .. I don't even like men in real life and think they disgusting but when I think of huge man who is powerful getting reduced to tears and being dominated by smaller uke looking seme .. this just turn me on .
I know people will say I am abnormal and should get help .. but this something I keep deep inside my heart .. I never told anyone about , the funny thing is when I see men on internet who want mistress and women to dominate them , I feel repulsive , I am not sadistic or have pleasure in dominating men , I just want to see cute seme dominate manly delinquent bully uke.
Their are people on twitter who say yaoi is fetishizing of gay couples .. I been reading yaoi for long time and I have never disrespect or fetishize any gay people in real life , I may have ship some kpop idols or anime characters but everyone else did it .. to me I like yaoi and I don't even know why it just make me happy when I read it .. so what wrong with that ?
Why can't straight girls like and read yaoi ? How should I respond to those accusations made by those people ?