So it's like you have a friend, They're the closest person to you, ya love them but at the same time you also hate them to the point of wanting to kill them sometimes... Just me? 3 reply
bcs it lets me enjoy romance without feeling like i’m being placed into the story or expected to self-insert which can happen in heterosexual romance due to heteronormative framing. it feels more like observing a relationship rather than being assigned a role in it.
i also find it less tied to traditional gender expectations about how men and wo...... reply