ZelAn's Questions (20)

https://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/771957/

fluffy
http://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/1090452/

http://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/592711/

https://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/1031741/

Omg wait I just remembered to mention. Can someone give me the link to this Chinese BL where there is devil patriarch or whatever MC, and seme who is a doctor I think and plays the flute. MC gets killed and is reborn again, etc.

I NEED IT.

Nvm I remember

https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kimi_to_no_dogfight/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/young_lad_s_wool_shop/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/zettai_bl_ni_naru_sekai_vs_zettai_bl_ni_naritakunai_otoko/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/tractor_full_of_love/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/unintentional_love_story/

Mo Dao Zu Shi

Thanks! Is there a good web where I can read that ? I mean novel version. Before I read Manhua.

Thank you! :)

https://exiledrebelsscanlations.com/novels/grandmaster-of-demonic-cultivation/

Try these one

https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/hello_green_days/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/koi_saku_potager/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/saishuu_densha/

And also I'm following a list that only includes stories like that, more or less

https://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/592711/

(๑•ㅂ•)و✧

Ooh thank you ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~

https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/a_paramour/

https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/fruit_of_the_tongue/
Are you looking for this one?

https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/fruit_of_the_tongue/

https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/ventham/
either this or the one @Snow said ?

Thank you. Here comes my nightmare BL!:/

Oh I found both lmaoo

Thanks!!

leaving comment because I wanna know

wait I know this

http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/hina_wa_mitsuiro_no_koi_ni_torawareru/

LMAO and thank you so much! ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~

maybe "today’s dinner is the hero"? i see you're already reading corporate slave dragged into the saint summoning and i had a feeling based off of the question haha

https://novelfull.com/one-useless-rebirth.html

This novel perfectly suites your description

Reading the summary, it’s good. I’ll be reading it soon. Thanks! (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

Haha yeah, I like stories like that.
And Ooh I’ll check that out. Thank you! (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

There nothing wrong with you. It just means you dont like sharing a partner with someone else. You probably just think that if you share your partner, you probably think your partner will fall out of love with you and you fear being alone and being heartbroken. Or atleast that's what I think. I'm no therapist and I dont like telling people what to think so dont take this too seriously.

I will never get used with that kind of thing.

I am a greedy person.
I don't want to share my love one.
No and no

Im poly and when I tell people that they show some uncomfortableness because like it was ingrained in their minds that monogamy is a "normal" form of relationship and something other than that is just abnormal...its just like stepping outside the box of what the norm is. And I guess it goes differently for people I guess...your probably not used to it and how do I say it...poly relationships written in BL manga doesn't fully explain how the relationships work but like I said...things goes differently for everyone. Maybe your being aro plays some part in this problem maybe it doesn't but it just has to do with getting used to it.
So I'm going to rec this one because its poly but also has a good plot so I kinda like it so here you go
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/i_wanna_die_before_i_m_30/

I read that before, it was really good. But the communication was a bit off I guess in my perspective. Maybe it wasn’t enough for me.

I don’t hate poly, I am new to it and slowly trying to get used to it, accept it. And no way is monogamy the only “normal” one, all types of relationships are normal.

What really matters is communication, trust, love.
I think what matters to me the most would be respect and communication. I’m aromatic, I’m curious about trying poly relationship but then I realize I lose interest quick, so maybe being an aro does play a small part. Idk.

Maybe I haven’t met the right person. Not that I want to anyways. I don’t want to get too attached to one person if I ever get in a poly relationship.

Since you are poly, is there any good tips from your experience? Thank you.

Well knowing my family, they say love is only possible between two people and if one of them finds another, it’s cheating. That’s been stuck on my mind for years. I also have had emotional detachment issues etc.

I am fine with poly relationships, I was just thinking about it deeply before replies poured in. It wouldn’t be bad to have more than 1 partners in a relationship, as long as there is consent and communication...mostly respect matters to me.

When I think about poly, “not love” and “cheating” comes to my head. Maybe that’s how my brain wires it to be because I’m not used to it, as I stated, I am completely new to this. Have always grew up in places where poly is said to be abnormal.

I’m an aro, bisexual, pronouns them; I have trust issues and other issues mentally. I have been in a relationship with a girl but I broke up cause I lost my interest in her within two weeks. And she was my last, it’s been 2 years now.

Knowing my trust issues, I doubt I can do well in poly relationships.. it’ll take a while to fully love both partners and be super affectionate. It’s so uncomfortable.

The only reason I even brought this topic up was because my friend introduced me to a poly couple who were looking for a partner. I was shocked, that’s my first impression.

Well, to be honest, its easier for me because like if my partner want to love another person I guess that's fine with me and if I want to be with another person they are fine with it..and if a problem arose from it then communicate with each other to work it out i guess...Communication plays a big part in poly relationships and well if I can't provide my lover with all the needs that they want I think they have the right to be with another person that would also be ok with us...its very hard since people just want a monogamous relationship but i guess it goes differently because I had a friend and we are now metamours and we are both really understanding of the relationships that our separate partners have and things work out well.

It’s okay! Everyone is different :).
I have the same thought as you but to feel comfortable and at ease, I’m willing to try being in a poly relationship. Just now I realized that maybe because I don’t want to share my partner, I haven’t thought of what my partner thinks of poly. (If I had a partner lmao)

If they want to do a poly, if it makes them happy, i will do a poly but I also have to start warming up to my second new partner (if I was in a poly relationship).

I may be fierce at first towards him/her/them. Knowing my personality, it won’t be long before I accept someone in our relationship.

Both mono and poly are okay. I see poly are just less common than mono and treated as abnormal.

I grew up in a monogamous family. It will take a bit of time for me to feel at ease with this poly relationship.

I see. “If I can’t provide my lover with all the needs that they want, I think they have the right to be with another person that would also be okay with us.”

Makes sense in a way. I’m still adjusting to it.
Knowing I’m an extreme aromatic person, losing interests quick.. wait. What if you’re in a poly relationship and you lose your interest in one or all partners? Do we have to break up? That sounds sad already.

Me being an aro is why some people give up the thought of dating me. My dating success is close to 0.1%. Probably best if I finish senior year and college first before I go into a relationship.

Lots of efforts need to be put into relationships and I’m the type to put more efforts into my studies the minute I wake up and putting a “.” (Period) before I sleep.

But I’m still willing to be attentive and as affectionate as I can with my partners if I ever was in a poly relationship, if I love them enough.

I have one last question. Is there a limit of how many partners there can be in a poly relationship or does it just differ? Thanksss!

no.. huh? not reading a genre doesn't mean theres something wrong with you, like some people just dislike horror so they stray clear of it. theres nothing wrong with it lmao

ooh yea and also, being aromantic doesn't affect the way you read, i mean some aromantics just don't read them at all, but at the end of the day its what you're comfortable with

Huh?? Oh no no I’m talking about my uncomfortableness with poly and recommendation for poly by choice so I can feel at ease.
It’s just what I do to feel comfortable. I get this urge to read poly BLs despite feeling uncomfortable.

I see what you mean by your example.

I don’t mean not reading a certain genre means something wrong with you.
I’m talking about reality poly relationships and recommending me some poly BLs since it’s so rare in this community.

Ah don’t worry I didn’t say me being aromantic affected how I read.
I’m completely fine with fictional BLs. I’m not the character and I’m not touching anyone or eye contacts.

I’m fine with fiction. Reality is different obviously.

ohh ok, in that case, here are some good ones http://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/1090458/

wait how do we use the contain spoiler thing

When you comment on a manga/manhwa/manhwa after you finish reading it.
You will see a "contain spoiler" box and just click that

Yep

Felt.

U wanna give me the names of those toxic BLs .... Not for me to read OBVIOUSLY so I can avoid reading them rather

Everything in the popular section.

yeah pretty much ╥﹏╥

I see no lie here, just facts ╮(￣▽￣)╭

NO LIES HERE LMAO. Authors really making these types of BLs and it’s getting popular too :(. That’s how you find fetishists easily.

:(

Right :(

Literally anything in the popular section. It makes up like 95% of BLs.. so many love triangles, not much portraying gay issues in reality etc.

Yeah, because they keep popping in the popular section. I try avoinding them, but then i see the the image and then i cant stop thinking about them. Really, i need to stop reading that shit.

But there are also nice one, and i dont wanna miss them.

There are some nice ones but omg there’s so many toxic ones. And I relate to that, seeing the image and it being stuck on my mind.

Yeah, it's so frustrating. Sometime I end up reading them. And after I really regret it. If we could just block them. I wouldn't see the photo either.

I think I'm more tired of stories that are supposed to be portrayed as toxic (the most popular being Killing Stalking) being romanticized.

SHAKDHWISBJEY exactly! Nobody wanna be in bum’s shoes :(

this is so fucking funny for some reason

Is it the brain part? (￣∇￣")

I've just never seen a person who hates a manga so much that they wanna block it

Ahh Lmao well I do hate it a lot that’s for sure. Blocking it would ease my mentality

Did you find an option? Same as u. There is something I don't wanna see.

For me it’s just the toxic BLs invoking some of my riggers and it no unfortunately it seems like mangago hasn’t made that option yet :/

Same as me. It's not like I want to get triggert. Even when we would suggest it, I think it will go under.

A manga i reallyyyyy do not wanna read at all just ended a few months ago AND NOW THEY MAKE A SEQUEL (╯°Д °)╯╧╧ Im sooo done with this I need a goddamn block featureree