Hey BL fans, tell me what are the Things other Readers Think about you BL fans but are Not really True?
Most non-bl readers think that all bl is just rape and porn slop, when in fact it's not true at all. There's lots of healthy and green flag stories with beautiful relationships but most people just go read the popular toxic rape manhwas and assume that every other manga out there is the same Even some fake bl readers spread misinformation themselves. There's lots of good stories it's just that people choose to make toxic and badly written stories popular.
Okay this is what people thought about BL readers but I’ll just say it even though perhaps it might be me but just because we girls read and Love BL doesn't mean we're all Bi, some BL fans areStraight and Never read GL in our Lives too
The things been Bugging me for a long time so tell me, if a Woman has an Affair with a Married Man, she's called a Mistress but if a Man has an Affair with a Married Woman, what is he called?
Then she’s called a cheater. I don’t make up the rules. I just live in this patriarchal hell hole.
No equivalent thx to misogyny
Mattress. jk
They get the lovely term "lover". Cause men u kno always gets the good end of stick
Oh my gosh, then there's no Name for Men? Screw it
double standards at its finest
Now you gave me something I'm gonna randomly think about while I stare at my ceiling at 3 am, thank you lol
Actually it depends on the premises. I have read only a few stories where the husband is non-existent or Abusive so the cheating is glossed over "had to be done" way. But when they show a married woman with kids, happy husband well we all know...
Definitely "hooker" lol jk i don't know
Okay then since Men who cheated with Married Women doesn't a Name, tell me what would you call them?
Does anyone know a EsperxGuide BL where the uke is old and buffed and he has a wife but don't know if his marriage has ended and there the Top just came to him to check on him or something since the uke is out of control with his powers?
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/c_class_esper_s_memorandum/ ?
Not sure, his wife died here though.
YESSS that's it, Thank You
I feel like I'm learning Sex Education while reading BLs, like how I'm learning which Position makes you feel Good and which Hurts and stuff while being a Virgin
SAMEEE!!
TJYW PFP SPOTTED IM GONNA CRY
Help don't use them as real reference because they aren't always accurate
real, some author put prostate in wrong place
all I'm learning is how bad i wanna crack hot buff men T_T.
Please never treat these things as the bible of sex ed Not only is it almost always overdramatized for the sake of entertainment, but sometimes the anatomy is also often wrong and wouldn't work that way irl.
One of the big reasons people like reading smuts so much is because of the lack of reality involved.
What's that BL that feels like a Ragebait to you?
Reverse Thinking .. noncon slop to me. #－.－)
Forgot the name but there was this one manga where the seme and uke were best friends and the seme was a manwhore. And like he knew the uke liked him but still hooked up with girls. Then one day he does it with the uke and he admits that he has liekd the uke all along.
I'm sorry but what
Also that one manhwa where the blonde semes power is having is a long dihh. Bro why does that manhwa even exist like what was the authors thought process
Okay my turn, it's Given, the Uke is so Annoying all he can think about is his Dead Ex that I started to feel Bad for the Seme, said he's healing but he's not he's just kept on bringing up his past to his Future that I dropped it at that, God I hate the Uke so much,I even hate the second Couple's seme who's a Whore that kept on hurting his uke
Oh.. don't start with the second couple
I felt the same about given
Mafuyu is such a Red Flag, the only reason he's not reflecting himself is because Uenoyama is a Good person, try that in real life and he'll be the one who gets Dump
What's the Cringest BL you've ever read?
My Beast Son's in Heat, i was not able to finish it.
Eye of the Storm, god it's so bad and overrated as fuck. the art leaves much to be desired (like genuinely) and the plot is straight out of wattpad (not even kidding, it's 1000% wattpadcore)
Name a BL that you don't Hate but Absolutely don't Like
I kinda on edge with When Pear Blossoms Bloom , i love the start of it but slowly the Mc just feel bounce on and off the 2 ml and toying around the younger one since he didnt know how to reject. It feel unfaithful and put it blankly sad, the ml didnt have any personality either. It sad to see it keep like this when i used to love it
dawn of the dragon i was with it until its revealed that the bottom raised the fucking top in their past lives like eeewwwww
Ew! What the actual fuck….
Is it wrong for me to Break up with my Boyfriend all because he Shipped me with the girl I Hate?
no break up
Room without windows
Gosh, sorry I replied to the wrong one
Dosent really seem like a full justification to break up, but who knows if yhe behavior might snowball if unchecked, try talking wid him, if it dosent change then u take the call ig
Okay I did talked to him about that saying I don't like it, I never ship him with any or the guys too and he said relax it's nothing, you girls won't even get together anyway, it's just shipping but he didn't stop like when we run into that girl I hate, he said there's your girlfriend, shall I call her to you which made me uncomfortable but he Won't stop no matter what, it's just not working anymore so I'm thinking about breaking up with him
Maybe as a last ditch effort ship him with the person he hates too, see how he reacts, try replicating the uncomfortable he made u feel. If that dosent work maybe ending it might make u feel better. Do what makes u feel give u less burden it is ur relationship in the end if the day and u get a say in it. Trust ur gut.
Thank you all for your advice but I think now I might just break up with him, cause I Don't dare ship what's mine with others while he ships me with others cause it felt like I'm in an Poly relationship which is gross for me but yet again Thank you so much for your advice, I really appreciate it, I think I will be in the wrong for this but here goes Tonight's breakup
Thank you too
All the best boss, u can do this
Okay, a little late to say this but I finally broke up with my Boyfriend, it was so frustrating that it took a day for him to cut contact with me, he said I was being Petty for breaking up with him over some unreal ship with is not even unreal to begin with since he's romanticising me with someone I had beef with and I said think whatever you want to him since it's over between us and he freaked out saying this is is ridiculous I just left after that and he kept on texting me non stop saying curse words and apologises and stuffs and after a long while I told him to send a video of him having sex with his Gym teacher and he did not take it well and I finally blocked him after that to cool my head
Video of sex wid the gym teach is crazyyy XD good on you for blocking him and congratsss on breaking up (hopefully u don't get any second thoughts) I hope u feel better noww :D time to start a new chapter for u and wish u all the bestt
Tell me your Favourite quotes from BL Tops
"You're the weight that holds me, the tears I couldn't shed. And more than anything... You're my breath." - that guy from friend or faux
“Why must grown men be so immature” wise words from a grown man.