Like an asshole top who is rich x a poor bottom in debt with a personality similar to the bottom in “Dirty XX”, or a green flag/friendly top who is poor x a power bottom with obsession of top.
Mine above ^ are just generic and not really in detail, so feel free to have yours in detail about their personality, what it should be like for you, etc.
Personally my favorites are the one in Boundary of Delusion or Delusion of boundary (forgot). Love two faced tops too.
Fellas is it gay to read BL as a guy?
Read as in consistently read BL, and maybe some straight romance. Well, mostly shounen ai. He says he likes those more, shows more real love or something.
He has a girlfriend, 2 years relationship.
Nah it isn't
What’s sexuality got to do with what you read? I’m a guy(bi) been into BL for like six yrs
Exactly
If I watch criminal movies or shows, am I a criminal
That horrid feeling, when you watch a crime show for the first time in your entire life and stay awake thinking what if I am a potential serial killer (⊙…⊙ )
nope, i read bl yet im a misandrist. just ask him if you’re not sure
am i japanese for watching anime
I go first, I hate Form of Broken Love (BL) because of the casual cheating and not enough grovelling.
I hate how the author made the bottom and other top’s sex explicit and as if the bottom liked the other guy more.
I have so many... Here's just a few.
Pearl Boy
It's literally revenge/torture porn disguised by pretty art. Theres so many things they could have focused on within it but it's literally just past rape, new rape, revenge rape.
Blood Link
I hate the art. Especially the lips. It's boring as hell.
How to Snag an Alpha
I hate the MC so much. There's literally no growth from any of the charcters.
Sign
Went on wayyyyy to long. So long I feel like it just ruined the story. It got so boring so quickly.
Love is an illusion is my top hated but I especially hated this pos as well https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/i_ll_be_here_for_you_19/ the top is absolute garbage. I hated him so freaking much
Pearl boy....my number 1 enemy (along with waterpiss night and with a side of can a lover be a subsitute HATE THEM)
Have to agree with other people saying Pearl not and blood link, how to snag an alpha was just so aggravating-
FINALLY SOMEONE HATING ON OEARL BOY I FUCKING HATE IT and people are always saying "ooh but the ml is such a green flag!" youre hardly seeing him because theres constant rape and incest on the screen. and anytime i say anything bad about it i unstantly get "its trauma!! uuuu!!" Ok i dont give a fuck
and then i think he got amnesia or something?? so what was the fucking point of all the unnecessary rape..? if he was gonna forget everything??? absolute trash plot, only thing going for it is the art, but the artist lwk has same face syndrome so its hardly even got that
i wont take sign slander tho i love sign (but i understand it is pretty draggy)
omg waterside night hate YAY and idk if its the same thing but low tide in twilight..? and codename anastasia absolutely fuck that
FRRRR THE WAY I HATE PEARL BOY WITH A PASSION
Idc whatever the name is bc at the end of the day it still is trash (also rip kim euihyun ass in the FIRST 2 CHAPTERS)
y'all could never gun to my head make me click on that shit
Backlight I AM ITS BIGGEST HATERRRRR. It’s so fucking bland, flavorless, and unseasoned!!!!!! It’s like every other rape yaoi slop and people have the audacity to say it’s well written?!! WHEREEEE it’s literally just a man whore rapist getting a sloppy sad backstory to justify raping and abusing a stupid ugly pushover Twink. ITS FUCKING ASSSSS if you generally think that pile of fucking hot garbage is actually good get tf away from me….
What’s the psychology behind being turned on by cuckold but I hate the thought of it??
And any cuckold BL or plain smut cuckold BL? Morbid curiosity here. I already have one but it’s consensual, in my list! It’s really hot though.
If I read one, especially non con cuckold, I am somewhat turned on (really depend if I’m in THAT mood) but if I think about it, I really dislike the thought of sharing my partner with another or participating.
I’m not passing psychology minor.
im not sure if this is the ans to your question but i think its merely just the fact that what you like fiction doesnt always mean you like it irl too— like rlly just a difference of fiction vs irl
I also thought it could be that. I guess I just can’t accept that simple reason lol
It’s that simple. I’d die if it happened irl but that’s fiction so its ok
I forgot this BL/Yaoi Name. It’s Japanese I think. Not color. Basically alpha MC (top) becomes an omega and he kind of loses respect, and his omega boyfriend who he didn’t really treat well. Alpha MC is now in an omega class, and he also sees another omega (light haired) getting fucked by others in classroom. He becomes friends with that omega, and they talk.
Later MC has sex with the President(?) of the omega club or something, and the dude likes MC genuinely but MC is more about the sex chemistry. The light haired omega dates another guy.
Just curious to see people’s replies.
1. What would be your first course of action if you were reborn as a person of nobility? Specifically you’ve become the antagonist.
2. As the antagonist, would you ability be to freeze time with the downside of three days cooldown, or the ability to read mind but your life span decreases by 0.12% daily.
3. As the antagonist, are you going to live murder free or murder? Morally grey maybe?
If I’m reborn with healthy body and antagonist, then I’d work with police/fbi/cia u name it. Having power to freeze time woul be huge benefits to either get criminals or kill them.
There’s so many people that doesn’t even deserve to live at all and with power of freezing time then I can plan ahead to track them down, confirm identity, schedules etc. when it’s time and ready to use ability then person will be dead with no way to track back to me. They would never see it coming and death waiting for them.
I’d also use my own power to make people’s life to living hell for messing with my mom and sis.
1 kill myself or run away somehow which would lead to, in cliches, likely me to be married with the Duke of the north or some shit lmao
2 freeze time for sure cause I doubt I won’t accidentally read someone’s mind or use it out of pure curiosity this lowering my lifespan by a lot
3 I don’t think I can handle murdering someone unless I try one out of pure necessity, it’s 50//50 for me.
1. Confused.. Reborn meant actually born again into a new actively be an antagonist or given 2ns chance as reborn as with status.. like transmigrated?
My first course of action is to know everything in that world.. My connections, enemies and current status.. knowledge is the foundation of making next moves..
2. reading minds can be damaging if not controlled and that wasted life span is not a good trade. freeze time is safer option
3. as a antagonist.. totally morally grey
1. I dunno I would probably just enjoy life as a rich girl. What do I get out of being an antagonist?? Noo Ill just live my life happily
2. Oh gosh do I have to be an antagonist? Either way I guess I would pick the time freeze thingy. Why would I give away my lifespan??
3. Murder free 100%. Sure Ill be morally grey then…
Nah I'm gonna run away to somewhere quiet and make a living using my abilities. Antagonists do a lot of work, I'm too lazy for that shit.
Freeze time
No killing
What I meant on the 1st one.. Will I be reborn again as like an infant, grew up siding with villian which made me automatically an antagonist or like a transmigration type where I was given a new life as an antagonist?
1. I would probably have a depression arc :D, maybe try to kill myself in hope that it's just a dream, then I would eventually get over it and plan to get away somewhere where I would live peacefully, like idk, buying a mansion in the countryside and hoping never to see the protagonists of the story. Which is what most protagonists want to do but it never works
2. Freeze time I think, it would give me some time to breathe and plan ahead without affecting my lifespan
3. I could never handle becoming a murderer, I always feel excessively guilty for the stupidest stuff so I would try to avoid it unless it's self-defence (ideally I would bring some guards from my rich family to protect me and do the dirty work for me lmao)
1. freak out…
2. freeze time so i can prolly look around and try to figure out what the hell im doing here
3. live peacefully with no kills (￣∇￣")
I forgot this short Korean BL. Basically dude waited for his lover who was thrown in prison to show up, and he never came for him. Scene at end shows him growing old, waiting still. “That friend never came.”
My fucking god I sobbed at that line. So sad how he waited all this time, but he never came. Theories that he died in prison or something, maybe he left.
wow omg this trope of waiting for someone who will never come breaks me everytime
When I say I want obsessive love, I meant this type that would wait for me no matter what, beyond time. But that is only fiction. It’s so heart shattering when you don’t know what happened to the other person, but still wait with hopes, grow old…and realize they’re not coming. Fuck this
I suddenly had a thought that if my stalker was handsome and rich, paid attention to me, I would take them (not super controlling ones).
After, I looked in the mirror and scrunched my face up because dang, my self respect is low.
nah you won't, you'd be scared shitless
don't ask me how I know
plz dont romanticize stalkers
its seriously creepy.. no matter how attractive they are
Real stalkers aren't like the ones u see in bl girl
Oh ok
I’m a guy. Obviously hence why I specified the factors like: paid attention to me, etc.
They don’t need to be stalkers, they should just want me that much.
I’m not. I’m just saying FOR ME, and I’m not talking about the super unhealthy stalkers. I obviously know stalkers in general aren’t good hence my: lack of self respect.
But cmon I don’t wanna work daily to freaking live. So it would be nice to have someone that wants you this much enough to provide for you (it doesn’t even need to be a stalker. I just read a stalker story so I guess it fed off that).
I had stalkers and yes they’re scary, not those type I meant. I mean the ones that actually aren’t controlling, respected your space and consensual. I only wrote this post without thinking much, after reading this cute story about some stalker dude but he is pretty green flag.
It doesn’t need to be stalkers. I just want someone that loves me enough to want me if that makes sense, not that I’m a burden or anything.
Thanks for your input, I sense no judgment
Stalkers can never be healthy, stalking itself is an extremely fucked up thing to do. Stories can paint them good, romanticize them all they want but they can in irl ever be a green flag, please be mindful of that.
I understand where you're coming from, your inherent yearning but please never consider such a harmful thing. Stalkers do not commit that act because they love you but they want to control you.
Okay well I genuinely don’t care if it may not seem morally fine to some, and I said specifically those that don’t want to control so that doesn’t apply here.
I’m not telling anyone stalking is fine, thanks for worrying though. I’m just at a point in life where I’m fine with a sugar daddy, I guess that’s a better wording than stalker.
I guess to better word it, I’d like stalkers like those fictional ones where they aren’t controlling, more like online stalkers but not physically following— and genuinely wants best for you. Stalking is still wrong nonetheless and if they don’t stop, then I wouldn’t go on.
Also guys, don’t worry. I swear I sound delusional but it was just a thought of mine and decided to share, finding it ridiculous. I’m grown enough to understand morals.
hey as long as ure not obsessing over an idealized version of stalking & being blind to the actual problems then its whatever
i guess everyone has their fair share of strange things they're into lol
dont go around saying that to the wrong crowd tho.. u might get burnt at the stake
My bad if I sounded like a delusional creep. I swear I’m just done working and idealizing the thought of having some provided lmao, it doesn’t even need to be a stalker, better if not. I guess I’m more so wanting the love that they’re able to do anything for me.
I’m actually majoring in behavioral neuroscience, I should know better haha. Just a fantasy basically! Of course of course, I know best to keep it in media no footprint.
Salem witch trials no more
lol yea no offense, u really sounded delusional.. i thought u were a 14 year old girl obsessed with dark romance
anyway ,, behavioral neuroscience sounds lowkey cool.. what can u do with it anyway? can u do something to my brain so that i can finally get good grades in econ ?
well i hope u fufill that fantasy or something lol
goodluck finding that person who'll do anything for u
Dang okay, thanks for your honest input! I was also thinking I sounded like a middle schooler after rereading lmao.
Behavioral neuroscience...isn’t the best or flexible if you want to work right away after graduating, and not going to medical school. It’s best for those that wish to go into medical school, at least for me since it covers half of the medical school’s entrance exam/MCAT.
Or if going to do masters.
If I become a neurosurgeon, I should be able to freely operate on you (just kidding, I know you’re broke).
I think by the time I’m done with medical school, I don’t need anyone to spoil me haha. Just idealizing the thought of it, but realistically I’d probably feel burdened by being spoiled (as that’s not what I’m used to growing up).
You’re in Econ? How is it? Your passion or just doing it?
I really hate econ but theres nothing much for me to do. I actually wanted to be a performer and get into acting or artist or something but that's just a pipe dream tbh
I'm really not into it but hey if it'll help me pay the bills i aint complaining
anyway u sound wise and all with that med student shit
sorry for assuming u were some 14 year old lol
goodluck with ur medical journey and stuff
im not really smart so i didnt wanna join med school
and i suck at maths so engineering is a no go.. same with law..
actually psychology sounded cool but lowkey im too dumb for that shit
anyway, the chat is getting off topic, i hope u get u get into that med school of urs.. please give me a discount if u operate on me! how did u know i was broke
A partner that will treat you like trash (whatever you think of when it comes to term ‘trash’, not literal trash can) but is forever loyal + gives you whatever you want. Does not respect boundaries, may be controlling in the way you interact with others.
Or
A partner that treats you so good but is unable to help you financially or let alone themselves. You have to help them look after their ill dad or mom. However, they give you love security, loyal, and respects boundaries.
Just wanna see something.
A friend of mine says she would choose first option because she is poor. But another of mine said they would choose latter because they can provide for them.
So basically a trash but rich man or a poor but good man
Like your friends answer, I think it depends on your financial situation or what you're looking for in a relationship, personally I will choose neither, I'll rather be single, but if I have to choose, it will be the second option
if the second guy's super hot then him for sure. but also,,,, if the first guy's gonna give me whatever i want can't i just ask him to act nice???
Lol
As in material things, but you can’t change the man itself
Yes if you have to, I put x_x there as in choose or die
Also I agree with second too.
That's why I had to choose, cause I dont want to die lol
Had both of those I'll take the 2nd one anyday
Trash in what way? If he physically, emotionally and mentally abuse me, then I'll choose the second guy.
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But honestly, gojo is right, we dont look for the personality, but rather the appearance.
I would choose being single if there is an option.
Then next is to choose the 2nd personality if they are both similar in appearance.