No bcz I really have to rant about this, please just ignore this.
But like, the fact that the entire reason juhyeok hates being an omega is cuz he perceives them in a stereotypical manner and believes and theyre weak and cant survive without the help of others and will always be a burden, which i think has also lent into his passion for kendo cuz he wants to prove this stereotype wrong by being strong and Independent and he wants to rely on no one but himself???
And the fact that Su-ah has literally forced him into this very stereotype because juhyeok is now actually living through his fear of not being able to live and survive alone??? Like??? Having to constantly rely on su ah??? Which he would not have needed at all had su ah not constantly scented him *without his permission or knowledge!??!*
And how the fuck is su ah treating juhyeok like he's in the wrong for the whole "treating Su-ah like hes a c*m machine"??? Bro you legit did this to yourself??? This is no ones fault but your own??? Juhyeok is only trying to find the most effective solution to a problem SuAh created for him!! Sure hes not taking the best route but can ya blame him? Su Ah has shown time and again that he is completely incapable of respecting Juhyeoks boundaries!!! So ofcourse juhyeok wants to keep his distance!!
And im not even gonna get started on the whole scenting thing. Ugh. That just pisses me off. I also blame the parents for some of the shit a lil tbh.
But anyways coercing juhyeok into a relationship is stupid and pathetic and I hope he suffers the consequences of his actions. (Also note that juhyeok liking him back does NOT excuse any of of SuAh's behaviour.)
Thank you for coming to my ted talk (╯°Д °)╯╧╧
yes kweeeennn go talk to them
Louder for the people in the back!!!
Thank you, with all the Juhyeok bashing and the whole both sides are wrong shit going around I was starting to ask if I was the one going crazy cause what the fuck. Lmao.
If I had my way, Juhyeok is the only victim here and everything happening to Suah are the consequences of HIS OWN ACTIONS. Damn I knew pretty privilege was prevalent in real life but to see it so blatant in this manhwa’s comment section is so frustrating.
Truthfully, if Juhyeok decided to cut Suah off the moment he found out he was scenting him without his consent, I would have been all for it. On the other hand, it was quite compelling when Suah said that he did it for Juhyeok’s own good because Juhyeok was being frustrating about protecting himself. If this manhwa leaned more towards this angle, I would have been more understanding of Suah sympathizers but no it’s all “Oh no Juhyeok better not hurt my poor baby”
THAT’S A GROWN ASS MAN
FUCK YEAH i kept seeing people defend su-ah recently and i felt so annoyed
But in this story juheok loves su-ah lol. He just doesn’t want to fuck because that would make him the omega for real, but he has and never stopped loving su-ah, so thats why the cum machine thing is weird. Su-ah is still treating him with love at the end of the day. If this was what juhyeok actually wanted, which is cold and transactional, he would not handle it, he literally panics at the thought of not being attractive to su-ah anymore. His heart sank because su-ah didn’t wave back, he depends on the love too not just the cum, and su-ah only owes him one of those things lol. So jueok is being an asshole to a man he loves, because of his conflict with his secondary gender, if juheok was the alpha and su-ah was the omega what they originally thought, they would have fucked and bonded a long time ago, the same people, same personalities but the wrong secondary gender lol. Both characters are shitty and good thats literally the plot. （￣へ￣）
Im reading this cuz im genuinely hoping author nim gives su ah some mirculous redemption arc cuz he is pissing me the fuck off so far. The only reason im not dropping this is cuz its just started and theres hope for it yet. And I honestly want to see su ah suffer so much rn. And not in a physcially painful way but more in a Juhyeok-Finally-Realises-Hows-Trashy-Hes-Being-Rn-And-Leaves kinda way because holy fuck does juhyeok deserve better
Does anyone know if this manhwa has a novel??? If so, where can I read it???
I think this is original and doesn't have novel
Does anyone know any other manhwa/hua/ga with Dom-Drop like this?? Its so rare to see it in dom/sub stories so i really wanna read more of it!! Any names and recs are welcomed and appreciated (=・ω・=)
This one is my fav hopefully you haven’t read it I have a couple let me know if you want more
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/yarashiku_shitsuke_kete_itoshite_ageru_dom_sub_universe/
Lmfao I once read this MHA DJ where Boku was the sub and Deku the dom. Deku goes into dom-drop and refuses to “play” because of something that happens to Boku that makes him afraid…his glare gets so intense I think it even effects other doms.
It’s called Antinomie. I had to search for it cause it’s been so long and wasn’t sure if it was on this site or the site that shall not be named.
Now, on another note, why do I lowkey have a bad feelin bout this shit!?!? The vibes aint vibin right noww I feel like we're about to get gobsmacked in the face by angst soon... (plzplzplz plz plz dont let me be right dont let this shit manifest i am bEGGING)
I KNOW HE'S NOT THERE YET, BUT YALL HAVE TO AGREE HE'S SLOWLY BUT SURELY U TURNING INTO GREEN FLAG TERRITORY (Id say he's about yellow rn)!!! WE'RE GETTING THERE!!!!
I keep on readin people saying that theyve read the novel and I wanna check it out too could someone plz help me on where i could find/read it???
I really really REALLY hope taeseo stays a Green-flag when it comes to yeomin I dont wanna see him turn into a red flag
wdym? he was never a green flag to begin with lmao he's been taking advantage of young and naive yoomin this whole time
yupp, he even said that yoemin seemed interesting/fun to play with.
i can already feel the cause of future angst to be because of that
My standards are really low when it comes to BL male leads so until he physically harms my baby yeomin or says the mean shit to his face, im gonna continue wearing my rose colored glasses (=・ω・=)
when was he ever a green flag
Those aren’t rose colored glasses that’s a whole ass neon pink blindfold my girl
As my favorite mantra goes:
Delulu is the Solulu
girl go to therapy
girl i can't help you on this but best of luck to you
I guess I've been reading way too many healthy dom/sub dynamic fanfics recently, because this is throwing me off.
Usually, I try to turn the analytical part of my brain off while reading stuff like this, cuz most of the time theyre so blatantly misrepresenting this stuff that I can easily just be like 'yeah this is clearly fiction, lets not use my brain for this one'.
But i didnt think Id have to bring that kind of mindset to this manhwa because so far, the author had been doing a pretty good job of representing a health dom/sub dynamic. I really hope they try to fix the dynamic and take it back into a healthier light.
The very necessity of a good d/s relationship/dynamic is communication. It is the core fundamental and CANNOT be compromised. The author was going decent-ish in the first season with this, but the second one is just completely off. I mean, that maid scene?? The dom using that as a means to talk rather than actually communicating with their sub?? No good dom would do that, especially not with a sub who's so new to the scene and is still discovering his limits and preferences.
And this recent chapter?? Again the same thing. A scene is never supposed to be you taking your anger out on your sub or throwing your weight around like that. Thats just plain stupid. And also, a sub isnt supposed to feel inadequate or fearful like that. So, i really do hope this can go back towards a healthier light soon.
Ikr! I’ve been saying this for ages. You don’t dom while angry! You don’t dom to get answers. You don’t dom to interrogate. Doing that makes your sub distrust you and it ruins good play. I loved the start but now? I’m just so disappointed in the authors take on what BDSM relationships look like. True romantic BDSM partners would NEVER use something they love (bdsm) in place of true communication when the whole spirit of BDSM IS communication. I’m so glad more people are seeing it and speaking up about it. I know they are fictional but the amount of people who copy what they see in media is insane and it’s WHY we have such poor representation to begin with! We get shitty porn with sex traffickers and 50 shades of grey with a narcissistic sadist who isn’t even a sexy sadist but a “I want to see you in pain” sadist. It’s important to speak up!
Can you drop some recommendations for some healthy ones
Don’t be shy, drop the healthy recommendations twin
Exactly!! Normally I try not to let it bother me cuz I know I already know theyre gonna ruin what d/s actually is for kinks sake, but, from what Ive seen so far, this author is probably portraying this as a "healthy and good" d/s dynamic, regardless of whether thats intentional or unintentional (thats how most people are taking it), and like you said, alot of people are just gonna copy what they see on here without thought or further research and thats just not okay! Not only is it gonna create problems for the actual d/s community, but also could seriously lead someone to hurt their partner!! So yeah I really hope author fixes the dynamics.
Some good manhwa recs where the d/s dynamic is actually decent/good:
1. Aporia. Its one of my personal favs tho its not perfect either.
2. The side couple in BJ alex.
3.Playroom actually has a really good dom and is one of my personal favs.
4. Kabukicho bad trip
5. A man of Virtue.
APORIA!!! Babe I love you marry me
Thank you for your service