i know i asked this before but i need more pretty tops ლ(´ڡ`ლ) i prefer finished stories but i don’t mind ongoing!
no worries pookie i needa check my memory + my reading list as well, sometimes i know a manhwa with a specific trope but i haven't read it bc petty reasons lol but i remember the name bc i wanted to read it but bc of some pet peeve of mine i cant continue it so it pmo lmao, so i remember stuff like that haha. most of the stuff i read is virgin4virgin and if it's not it's experienced x experienced , and i exclusively read buff bottoms (tops can be buff as well as a bit on pretty side even a bit smaller than bottoms that also fine but bottoms need to be buff for me to read it so u best believe i need to find stuff like a heron finds fish in fastflowing river XD
anyway this is js my personal tropes i like no hate to people who read the tropes i don't like, it js don't suit me haha. xoxo peace out stan #satosugu
you can go through my reading lists, and all my lists which i have made, i legit have a list of "both virgins(BL)" bc i was sick n tired of not finding the tropes i liked, so i made it so that anyone else who might like the same tropes can enjoy it. please mind that i sometimes not put some manhwas despite them matching the tropes initially, bc i don't like the story progression. (eg. "mousetrap" was virgin4virgin buff bottom but then author added rape into it by third party and made it wannabe love triangle so i removed it from my list even tho ik mc is gonna end up with 1st ml). apart from that you can check out my "wanna read maybe" list, although that's a personal list basically it's "want to read" but i don't want to add stuff in my actual want to read until it's serious business. so yeah, you can check them out. i know im being so lame telling u to check my profile out but who knows you will find something nice to read? (also, in my "wanna read maybe" list i dont add synopsis under it, js my thoughts, if any, so idk if those are v4v or not)
and personally i think satosugu is a vers couple. hear me out, HS gojo is more bottom coded (the way he's so bratty and ragebaiter with geto) and sensei gojo is more top coded(the way he's so goofy but becomes serious when he sees geto). overall they are a vers couple (if they ever even had sex that is, which i doubt, their story is so doomed it makes me sd beyond reason. they died such sad deaths and def were virgins). i love stsg so much
heres my pretty and/or twink top list!!! https://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/3554084/

if you were to choose between the love of your life and your dream career, what would you choose?
loyl as in they’re your spouse forever (no ethical or immoral problems). whereas your dream career is smooth sailing to your desired career path.
It depends cuz both the things you mentioned are transient as people are meant to change with time or in worst case scenario, die and jobs aren't stable but if we look at the choices I think I would pick the love of your life option (if I had a lover that is)
that’s true, i didn’t think of it that way. may i ask what’s your reasoning? i’m just curious to know why’d someone give up one for the other.
ehhh its quiet simple actually, because intrapersonal relationships are harder to find than jobs. anything that pays the bills does the work but finding someone who is ready to stand by your side and support you in your hardships is better in so many ways
Money can always be earned back but it's difficult to find someone who is loyal and understanding to yourself. Also the right person will try to support your dream career, even if it's not in the form you had in mind in the first place
I’ve been married for over 20 years and I’d never give up my husband for my career (even if I had my dream career). It would be like giving up half of myself for a job. You can make money however and do your “dream career” as a hobby, which is what I do.