I understand wookyung as fuck. I feel him. And I'm really scared because of that. I'm not in an SM or DS relationship but I have the same life experience as him and my response to them was the same. I'm so god damn scared.
If nothing else, please allow me to validate that the life expectancies and fears of growing into adulthood (now, more than ever) is completely valid and not unusual at all. How we deal with our stress is unique and sometimes we struggle to find healthy ways to cope. Not knocking on BDSM at all or any other kinks, but everything needs healthy boundaries and nearly anything in excess quickly goes from mundane to harmful. You’re doing great and you’re not alone in your anxieties. I’m rooting for you.
Sincerely,
An Internet Stranger



Ok. Now what should I do with the rest of my life?
Real bro