being honest, it's only natural. positive reinforcement for good behavior, and negative for not; life will always be like that, and parents do that as well; not sure about cake, but that hit can be devastating;
its about expectations, but how strict they are on that changes how your childhood and young adult life experience and will effect you in ...... reply
god, the answers here are toxic already. don’t be rude if you can’t understand OP’s issue??
honestly, i have the same problem in a way??
i grew up w/ two prodigies for brothers so i always had such a pressure to be great like them. unfortunately, i couldn’t reach most of their expectations so i was barely praised and was regarded as the �...... 2 reply
I'll take this question like a rant, just like you said at the end, and not like an actual question because... well... it'obvious.
Maybe you won't care about it, but I want to write about the problem with sciences. Don't be upset. It happens multiple times. You have good grades, then you change your subject and then they start worsening. The same ...... reply
you must be wondering why your parents seems changed and you feel like they didn't love you as much as before bcs your grade is fall. i think it's bcs they had their expectation of you, it can be bad and good. your parents do care for you and want the best for you so study is like a good option, but it can be bad bcs they think of you as someone wh...... 1 reply
You can’t expect your parents to reward you if you’re bad, do you?? “Yeah let us celebrate our child failing that’ll teach them a lesson!”
Just talk it out with them and tell them things are harder now 2 reply
First off. Not all parents love their children, their children could be doctors, could find a new bug species and their parents would still not love them.
For the title. It's better if parents encourage good behaviour this way, rather than beating the sh*t otta you if you aren't good. The latter could give someone serious trauma that could affec...... 1 reply
bro, I remember having these type of long-ass essays during my teen angst drama period and its fooking cringe. props to OP for having the guts to vent to more than a hundred strangers about it ╮(￣▽￣)╭ reply
BRO FOR SOME UNKNOWN REASON I FIND THIS QUESTION HILARIOUS
anyway lets be serious now, so i read this whole thing and i just wanna say if you're going thru a tough time, it'll be for the best to talk it out with your parents, i know majority of us have major emotional trauma that comes from our parents high expectations of us at a young age, but a...... 1 reply
