This might be a bit rough but... My advice is hurt him (tell him) as soon as possible, the faster the better... You'd hurt him sooner or later anyway, srry.
If you still want to have him in your life, my advice is after you broke up, don't contact AT ALL to give each other some time (my past relationships is 6-12 month of no contact at all), and i...... 1 reply
ah the same thing has happened to me except we didn’t go out for as long as two years ^^ we started off as good friends and it sort of went from there but i broke up with him because i didn’t really have any more romantic feelings towards him except he obviously still did. i think you should break up with him as soon as you’ve sorted out your...... 1 reply
I’ve been in the same situation !! and let me tell you it didn’t end nicely... he asked to still be friends and I said okay thinking MAYBE POSSIBLY we could be friends but... he was way too clingy after (it was like we didn’t even break up) and kinda stalker-ish too. The reason I felt the need to break up was because I didn’t feel that spar...... 1 reply
The same thing happened to me a couple of weeks ago and for me I found that I had to be completely honest or he wouldn't let me leave (￣∇￣") which turned into him being really mad and posting our breakup on his social media and calling me out my name so we couldn't exactly be friends 1 reply
Ngl it’s very unlikely you can continue being their friend. They are the ones that have feelings for you and it gets messy when only one person has romantic feelings and the other has not. Unless he loves you so much that he’s willing to hold back his feelings for you in favor of still being in contact with you, it’s very unlikely. Realistica...... 1 reply
Pleaseeeee!!! I need help. Basically, I started dating this guy a little less than 2 years now. We started off as friends and then it escalated. I love him but just not in the way he may feel about me. I wanna be friends still, but the spark or whatever you wanna call it (lust?) isn't there. I don't want to hurt his feelings (he is prone to getting sad), but I also don't want to continue lying to him and myself. So, how would one go about breaking up with someone but still wanting them in their life, but just as a friend? ┗( T﹏T )┛
I lost my virginity when I was 17, and frankly, it was awful. I didn't even feel it. He'd already come. He was just a man that I fell in love with but was way too addicted to sex and I couldn't stand it.
I'm currently in a relationship with another man for 2 years and it's been a year since we haven't had sex but we have no problem with that and we...... 2 reply
I think I’m demisexual. I’ve never fallen in love also, but I’m not repulsed by the idea of sex if doing it with someone I love but I wouldn’t do it with anyone else idk, the idea of making it with someone I don’t love is gross 2 reply
Okay, I'm not anymore, lol - I lost it at age 15. Lots of my other friends back then already did it, but I wasn't the type to get drunk at a party and then boink some random guy. I was a teenager with raging hormones, so I wanted to have sex, but! I didn't want it to be meaningless and just do it for the sole prupose of trying it out or getting it ...... 3 reply
