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Confess To Your Crush

Hmmm I’m not sure. I’d say feel it out first or you can be straight forward and ask how they view you that way you’ll know how to proceed from there.   reply
08 03,2026
Rynrunner04 08 03,2026
Not that anyone is following lol. I posted a little while back about my experience confessing to my crush 2-3 years ago, getting rejected, becoming friends, and then realizing things were still kinda weird between us. We've only hung out in group settings before, as I'm closer to his roommates than to him. Since my last post, things have been mostly back to normal (as normal as it gets for us), except that we're more comfortable addressing each other and asking each other questions (still in group settings). I thought that since he's graduating in a few months, I might as well bite the bullet and ask him to hang out just the two of us. He said yes! He seemed pretty excited (as much as one can over text), despite being busy and having exams. My question is how can I vibe check how he feels about me or hint about my own feelings? Should I even bring it up? I thought this could be a good time because we're about to go on spring break and I could have *recovery time* lol. Also ideas of what I could do for this ambiguously friendly hangout haha...
08 03,2026
Resist digital IDs [Experience]
Rosa
26 01,2026
Let this incident with this site be a warning and foresight that over-reliance on digital is dangerous. At the snap of a finger, you can lose everything. If your country urges you to sign up for digital IDs and pushes for a more cashless-based financial system, resist at all costs.   1 reply
26 01,2026
Bingspoon 16 01,2026
honestly i feel like the ball is in his court atp. u can be flirty or ask if he likes u but i wouldn’t confess ur feelings again until he tells u   1 reply
16 01,2026
Ottaakkuu
16 01,2026
If you don’t confess, it could be a missed opportunity, but I would like to add a BUT lol i’m a firm believer that men should confess and take the initiative, specially considering he’s already rejected you once. Ultimately, the final decision is up to you. (=・ω・=)   reply
16 01,2026
Rynrunner04 16 01,2026
A couple of years ago started liking this guy at uni and i confessed to him, but he rejected me because we weren't really friends, just had some mutuals. He said he would only date someone he's friends with.
Over the last two years, we've kinda become friends (I hangout with his roommates a lot so we end up in the same spaces), but it's always a little awkward. I know he still thinks about when i asked him out, because he's mentioned it to his friends recently. I also know that last year he liked one of his close friends (she doesn't like him), but idk if he's still into her.
I've always tried to be respectful and stay out of his space, and he's always kept his distance physically, but last week we were doing a puzzle with our friends at his apartment and he sat next to me, close enough so i could feel him breathing. He'd accidentally touch my hand and immediately apologize, which happened at least 5 times (once it was my knee, which I'm still trying to figure out how he got there). Even after i stopped acknowledging it, he would still apologize, which kinda just drew more attention. He would give me pieces that he thought i was working on and sometimes would take a piece, lean in and softly ask where i thought it goes. When I tried to leave to eat (i had been there for several hours), he said that they had food there, and when i said i specifically wanted chips, he said that they had those. When someone asked if he actually was serious, he hesitated and said he didn't actually know, which made me feel like he was just saying whatever so i'd stay (which he's never cared about before). We'd joke a bit here and there, and i admit i may have been flirting unconsciously by teasing him about his vocal stim habit of singing. My memory, of course, is unreliable. I should add that his previous(?) crush was also there, so idk if that influenced him.
My friends think he's into me, at least a little, but I'm not sure. He's also graduating this year, so i won't be seeing him after that. Is it worth saying something? Besties i need help
16 01,2026
MAR1333
01 01,2026
Help IM FINALLY IN 2026 WITH YALL about time sm We’re all in this together ~ do great things live laugh love im hella plastered rn ima sob   2 reply
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JorkinIt
18 12,2025
Saving myself for choso/srs   reply
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Maiko42
18 12,2025
Nah im good   reply
18 12,2025
cz human sucks and blame my avoidant attachment issues   reply
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