Cuz sex isn't just purely recreational. I'm not religious but I used to firmly believe people should only have sex after marriage. Now I believe people should only have sex when they really love each other, not just something you do at the end of first date. During a moment of weakness, I almost had oral sex with my ex and we had been friends for 2...... reply
Cuz its against my religion to have sex before mariage. That means i only have sex after mariage and ofc with my husband, the one n only partner.
And i too set great wall about sex before mariage metter *only for myself, i dont bother with the others, its all up to them right*
Even on my relationship, i end up breaking with my bf cuz he insist on d...... 6 reply
Most of my life, I've considered myself Asexual. Being raised on BL from puberty, I developed a bit of a squick against heterosexual relationships. I only liked the human body in the way I like a painting; something you hang on your wall & look at but never touch, even preferring 2D bodies over the real thing. Now that I'm almost middle aged, REAL ...... 4 reply
Because I think nobody wants me. I'm insecure, and no I'm not cute, so I'm insecure for good reasons. I'm almost 22 and I've been wanting to lose my virginity for a while now, I dont think its a big thing (but I respect the ones that keep it as an important thing) because I'm not just a thing that lose value because of some tissue, but even with th...... 1 reply
I am not a virgin anymore, but I only lost it at 21 years old. My main reason was I was/ still is that I am deathly afraid of getting pregnant. Even now (5+ years later) I have had only 2 different partners. I think there is too much pressure to lose your virginity these days, to the point I think some people regret their 1st time. I don't, but I d...... 3 reply
Because I don't want to do it with just some random people. I take virginity seriously here, and I am one of those who believe that s*x only appropriate after marriage, with commitment, special and a sacred matter. It's so special that I won't do it with just "boyfriend/girlfriend" or common lover as the relationship. That's how I still a virgin. 3 reply
