I think I was 10 or 12 when I first came across yaoi. I was on YouTube looking at some videos and I found a video that was filled with pictures of yaoi. I guess at that moment I found it oddly adorable. The "special" thing for me is that I love looking at the different kinds of relationship they have. The erotic stuff I mostly just a bonus. But whe...... 1 reply
No one dies a virgin, life fucks us all.
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in all honesty I don't get why people are so fixated on virginity
you don't win a prize b/c of how quickly you lose it.
and b/c I am part of the medical field I see a lot of nasty cases of STDs, unwanted pregnancies, and other messy shit like that.
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I'm 21 and I still haven't. I was thinking the same thing lol. I don't really feel anything about it, but maybe I'm traveling abroad so maybe then :") reply
Well shiiiii I lost mine when I was 13. I'm 14 now and It wasn't really my choice, so dont go thinking I'm a slut or whatever. I wouldn't say I was raped either it was more like he came on to me tooo strong. reply
I was 15. I regretted it for a while bc back then I thought it was "uncool" to be a virgin. I wish my first time was with someone I actually loved but now I'm 21 and could care less anymore. 1 reply
If I said... it was when... I was 9 years old... would y'all believe me? Like I'm not proud of it. I was a real hoe when I was little man. It was terrible. And the person I did it with, it's even worse. I won't go into that but it was bad and gross. 2 reply
14 years old. I cant say I regret it since I guess I was sorta ready for it (or so I thought at the time) Though what I do regret is not doing it with the person I love. It was a bad time, we were in a relationship & he had strong feelings for me but I didnt even like him :/ reply
15, but i'm not proud of it and would change it if i could. Bc i was so young i didn't really know what i was doing and the importance of contraception lol. The guy was an ass hole, so i like to pretend i actually lost it w my lovely bf i have now (17/18yr) ...
No sweat if you haven't lost it, or have, doesn't actually truly matter. ¯_(ツ)_/¯ 3 reply
From what I've learned, Most fudanshi only read BL because they like the bromance & will insist they're not gay. The sexually confused ones who end up being bisexual & preferring femme androgynous men over beefcake Bara types will gravitate to shotacon or otokonoko more often than yaoi.
As a woman who appreciates the sexiness of women's bodies ove...... 2 reply